What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 29
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? England
Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
What’s your occupation? Student
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? A little
What’s your sexual orientation? Bisexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Changes time to time
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 6
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
Me & My Friends with Benefits
How long ago did this hookup happen? 3 years ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Single
How would you best classify this hookup? Friends-with-benefits
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For more than 3 years.
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? We met in Germany as language students. It was me, the guy we called “Bulky,” and a girl we called “Ginormic.” She had green eyes and red hair (dyed); he had blond hair and blue/grey eyes.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We were all drinking in a bar and he decided to dress up as a cat. It was hilarious. Then we all went to my room upstairs.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Bulky took my leggings and top off so I was in a bra and pants. Ginormic started rubbing my arms whilst Bulky sucked my legs; it went on like that for a few minutes and then Ginormic took my bra off. They sucked my tits – one each, sometimes biting them a little. Then my pants came off and Ginormic and I made bulky get stiff whilst he and I fingered and rubbed Ginormic’s clit and pussy. When we were done, a very wet Ginormic pushed me on the bed and opened my legs. Bulky put his cock in my pussy and it was huge, stretching my lips. He was going deep inside me when Ginormic put a dildo in my ass, making it stretch. Also, it was so good and my pussy started to drip, so I started rubbing my clit really hard and fast. When Bulky took his cock out and I squirted all over his body, he made me lie on my stomach and Ginormic sat on my back. She shoved the dildo into my ass while Bulky laid really hard into my pussy. I then felt his hot sticky cum rolling out of my pussy and he stuck his tongue into it. I started licking Ginormic’s ass and stuck a dildo into her hot warm pussy. We soon did the same to Ginormic, then she and I sucked Bulky’s dick together until he came in our hair.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one.
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple.
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We still do it now.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, intoxication.
How intoxicated were you? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it.
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? A little tipsy/high.
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? With Bulky and Ginormic at the bar and we just did it.
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Him licking his cum off my wet pussy.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Nothing
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Nope
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative.
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? Nothing
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? My fiancé struggles to give me that much pleasure.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? I guess it is good.
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