Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
Relationship status: Single
How religious are you? Not at all
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 12
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
Move over Triathlon – There’s a New Olympic Sport in Town
How long ago did this hookup happen? 18 months
How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? One night stand
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? As far as I can remember (and from his picture on the Olympic Athletes website, which I looked at the next day to clarify my very blurry memories), he was tall, tanned with a mop of brown curly hair and a body to die for – (although this was just an assumption until later on when i did indeed confirm that theory).
In terms of how well we knew each other, that would be literally not at all. We met on the night of the deed itself, in a club, surrounded by lots of tequila. He was in town as part of an Olympic football team, who were commiserating losing their match that day and as a result, falling out of the competition. Me and my friends decided it fell on us to cheer them up the way we knew best – shots and lots of them. This went down VERY well.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? The hookup began as a result of the aforementioned tequila. A little innocent flirting just escalated very quickly, and it was clear we were both up for a little more than a quick kiss in a darkened corner.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? The hookup itself wasn’t particularly extensive but what was done was done well. Foreplay was covered on both sides – as guys go, the guy knew what he was doing in terms of oral on me, and I returned the favour for him, as is good manners. We started in missionary, changed it up and went with a little bit of reverse cowgirl (if I have to criticise anything, this didn’t work for us. Rhythms were all wrong and so we shut that down quickly and went for a far more successful regular cowgirl before finishing in doggy, which saw him off very nicely. I didn’t orgasm but by no means was it bad sex. Quite the opposite in fact. There was a very intense, almost animalistic nature to it, which I think came from the fact we both knew what this was – nothing more than sex for our own pleasure rather than the act of physically being intimate with someone else.
Afterwards was pleasant, we chatted away like best mates for a couple of hours, just lying there, somewhat cuddled up. There’s not much point being awkward with someone you’ve just slept with, surely that ship has sailed! He had to leave to catch his flight at 5.30am so that was fine. I showed him out, he said it was great meeting, and gave me a kiss and off he went to get in his taxi. I went back to bed and that was that.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? I’m on the pill anyway, and as a result I did not think about a condom until it was we were pretty much getting down and dirty. In fairness, once the issue was clearly on the table, the statement was made “I’m clean if you’re clean” to which the reply was “well I’m clean so lets go”. And that was that – discussion about STI history kind of has a way of ruining the moment don’t you think.
What were your REASONS for having this hookup? Rather than having reasons specifically for having it, I would say I just didn’t have any reasons I could think of not to. I was young, and single and enjoy a good time. It is not something I do every weekend by any means, but I see absolutely nothing wrong with a one night stand as long as both parties are emotionally capable of keeping it just that. He was in town for one night, and I was feeling up for it. What better ONS circumstances could you ask for?
Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? A LOT of tequila, vodka, and wine on my part. I can’t speak on behalf of him – although given the nature of his career I would assume drugs were not up his street. What little talking we did do is not very well stuck in my memory.
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I felt a little more fulfilled than I had the day before, but in terms of emotions, I felt nothing. Now, I’m not an emotionless whore but I just have my head screwed on and I knew what I was getting into when I did. Had he been staying around or someone I knew, maybe I would have done but as it was – casual, meaningless sex has never been a more apt description of something.
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? My housemates were suitably in awe – according to them I’d done well on the looks scale but there was no judgement. It’s nothing none of them hadn’t done before and since. We just sat, I critiqued the ups and downs of the sex and we all had a very girly giggle about the whole thing.
Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? It was absolutely consensual and wanted on both sides. I wouldn’t say I went looking for sex that night but the opportunity arose and I took it. On the other hand, I have a feeling he was looking – and good for him, he found what he was looking for.
Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? I don’t regret it at all.
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Best: How many people on this planet can say they bedded an Olympic Athlete – Answer is probably a minority!
I only cemented the fact that I think casual sex is harmless fun on the most part and shouldn’t be considered something that is a taboo in any way as some people still do.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
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