What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 60
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? Dublin
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your occupation? Company Director
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Bisexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Promiscuous gay
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 100+
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
My First MMF
How long ago did this hookup happen? Two months
What was your relationship status at the time? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
How would you best classify this hookup? Group sex
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I had meet the guy before on several occasions for sex. Very nice, attractive, younger guy and an enthusiastic lover to boot. He liked to dress as a woman and I was indifferent either way. His kink, not mine. I had never met his wife previously, but he broached the subject with me asking would I be interested in a threesome as they had discussed this as a fantasy during their marital sex. I jumped at the opportunity.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? As I said, they instigated it and I was very happy to go along. We agreed to meet at a hotel near where they live and met for a casual lunch in the hotel restaurant before going to the room. We were all nervous at first but as soon as we all got naked the nerves vanished.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Because both men in this equation are bisexual, a lot of different angles took place. I fucked him, he and I sucked each other, we took turns fucking his wife and she enjoyed watching us fuck and masturbated watching us. We also took plenty of pictures for after action enjoyment.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Thoroughly enjoyed it. We met a few weeks afterwards for a rematch and hoping for round 3 any day now although I suspect that may not happen.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None, Condoms
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, Making new friends
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Not at all
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? The lady was not only delightful in bed and an enthusiastic lover, she was a genuinely nice person and I think we could become friends
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? I instantly wanted more and it probably won’t happen.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? I thought women were in my past and now I crave sex with women as well as men.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? Probably some of the best sex I’ve ever had.
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? Obviously my wife had no knowledge of this. I would like to see casual sex being more socially acceptable, like having a beer with a work colleague. Why not have sex as well/instead. It’s no big deal and there is too much Judeo-Christian guilt associated with sex.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Enlightening!
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