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What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 35
What’s your race/ethnicity? Mediterranean
What continent do you live on? Australia
What country and/or city do you live in? Ausrtralia
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 30
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

My First Orgy

How long ago did this hookup happen? 4 years

What was your relationship status at the time? Single

How would you best classify this hookup? Group sex

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? It was in a swingers club so I didn’t know any one beforehand

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I was always intrigued by the idea of visiting a swingers club, but never thought I would actually do it. I read online about a club that allows selected single guys on Thursday nights. I have fantasized about going there for well over a year but one day I decided that the fantasy has to turn into a reality.

I waited nervously outside the club as per the instructions on the website. The door was opened by a cute girl who was wearing a police outfit and a holding whip. She took a quick glance at the group of guys who were waiting outside and she selected three. Luckily I was one of them.

We followed her up a narrow set of stairs where she handed us lockers keys. She asked for our names for the deposit.

The first guy said Adam. She replied: I know you are giving me a fake name, why not give me a sexy one like Fabio, Romario, etc..

The second guy said John. She replied, “Oh, another unsexy fake name.” Why not choose a Fabio or an Angelo!!

When she asked me I said: Fabio!! I heard few giggles and I was known during that night as Fabio.

She explained that the mingle room is upstairs and the play room is downstairs and that most couples are currently upstairs mingling.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I walked upstairs and saw a number of couples with different ages and body shapes. Two women and a man were sitting on the side and seemed friendly. I asked if I can join them. They said sure. They could tell that I was a little nervous and asked if it was my first time. I said yes. One of the women, Kelly, said it was her first time too. I felt more comfortable. The other two were an experienced husband and wife, Rob and Sally.

After chatting for a while, Sally nudged me with her toe and said: go have a shower and join us downstairs for a foursome. I didn’t need much convincing. When I found the bathroom, I tried to find out whether it was males or females!! Then I remembered: I was in a swingers club. I took a shower and looked for my new friends. I saw them setting up.

Kelly laid on the mattresses and I laid beside her. Rob straight away went down on her while I started kissing her and playing with her boobs and Sally started sucking me. I couldn’t believe it was all happening. After some amazing oral, she reached out for a condom put it on me and slid my cock deep inside her. Rob soon started fucking Kelly. Rob fucked Kelly missionary style then he started fucking her doggy style. When Sally saw this, she positioned herself next to Kelly and asked me to fuck her doggy style too.

Rob and I were fucking two beautiful women doggy style side by side. Rob looked at me fucking his wife and said: fuck her Fabio, she loves a good fuck. That took me to a whole new level of pleasure.

While Rob was fucking Kelly, a random man approached her and placed his cock in front of her mouth. She started sucking it voraciously. It was the first time I see a spit roast right in from of me. Call me naive but I really thought before that experience that it was something that happened in porn only.

Rob then released a huge moan and pulled out of Kelly. The man she was sucking pulled out of her mouth and started fucking her. There was something so liberating, so sexy, so powerful about the freedom I was experiencing. No hang ups, no concerns, no ego, no competition, just pure pleasure..from both men and women. Unbelievably sexy.

I was still fucking Sally and I was about to cum. I told her that if she wants to cum I can wait. She said, “No worries, just do what you like, I’m sure I can find another man to fuck if I want to cum.” While she was saying that, I found that Kelly was now alone playing with herself. I pulled out of Sally, changed the condom and started fucking Kelly till we both came.

Now Rob, Kelly and I had cum but not Sally. Kelly offered to go down on her if she wants. Sally said she has never been with a woman before but she is willing to try. I found this strange, particularly that Rob and Sally were experienced swingers. Kelly kept licking Sally till she came.

Rob and Sally said that they had to leave but urged us to stay and have more fun. Kelly, being a single female in a swinger club, have had all the pleasure she wanted. I think she had sex with well over ten men. At one stage, I saw her sucking three guys at the same time while a fourth guy was fucking her.

I took a look around the club. People were fucking, licking and sucking and enjoying themselves as if there was no worry in the world.

It was one of the most liberating experiences in my life and I keep wondering why real life is not like that? Why do we have to complicate things? why do we have to judge people by their sexuality? The people in the club learned to let go and they were really a friendly and a happy bunch of people. I wish I can live that freedom outside the boundaries of a swingers club.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I exchanged numbers with Rob, Sally and Kelly and we planned to meet again in the club but it never happened.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Learning new things, experimenting, Thought it was an important experience to have

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? I don’t know / I’m not sure

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Few friends but with little details. Some loved it, some hated it and some didn’t believe me

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Mixed (Some positive, some negative)

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? The complete sense of freedom

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Nothing really

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Absolutely, particularly around how awesome it is to be around people with no sexual hang ups.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? For people to be more open about what they want

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Been following it for a while and really love it

You have a hookup story to share? Submit it here!

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