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What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 46
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? London
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Teacher
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Somewhat
What’s your sexual orientation? Bisexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 15
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None

My first pussy

How long ago did this hookup happen? 3 years

What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status

How would you best classify this hookup? Friends-with-benefits

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For 1 to 3 years

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I hooked up with my best friend. She’s funny, kind, and very pretty.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We were on a spa break. Nobody instigated it- it just happened. I still don’t know how.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We were on a spa weekend. We had our massages and facials and spent the day in the pool, sauna and hot tub. We had a lovely dinner and shared a bottle of wine. We were lying on the bed, watching TV. Chatting about normal best friend stuff.

The conversation turned to sex toys and she told me how her husband enjoyed watching her using hers. I was shocked, because my husband doesn’t know I possess one. She laughed at this and got hers out of her bag. There was a weird moment, and then suddenly we were all over each other. We kissed deeply and I undid her bra. I asked if it was okay, and she breathlessly said “oh yes!”

Laying on the bed, I suckled on her lovely heavy breasts. Wet beyond belief, I straddled her and ground my pussy against hers. Alternating between sucking her tits and kissing her face. She undid my bra and took a nipple into her mouth. I removed my knickers and then pulled hers off. I then got my toy out of my bag and we used our own toys on each other. She came hard on my plastic cock but I wasn’t quite there. She pushed me into my back and went down and ate my pussy. While down there she had three fingers inside me and then slid one into my arse. It tipped me over the edge and I had the most mind blowing orgasm, it was so good that I cried. Normally, when I have come, I lose interest but not that night. We sucked each other in 69, fingering each other’s pussy and arse, both of us had several orgasms during the night. We slept in each other’s arms, waking up for more. I can honestly say I fell in love with her that night.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? No awkwardness at all. We tease each other occasionally. And it’s funny.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Learning new things, experimenting, Emotional intimacy, closeness, connection

How intoxicated were you? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Nobody. (Except you!)

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? New experience and emotional closeness.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Nothing

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? I found out I like sex with her. Doubt I’d like it with any other woman.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? People need to lighten up

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Great.

You have a hookup story to share? Submit it here!

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