What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 44
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Asia
What country and/or city do you live in? Seremban
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Teacher
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Muslim
How religious are you? Somewhat
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Can be Bi
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? many
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? none
How long ago did this hookup happen? 3 years ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
How would you best classify this hookup? Group sex
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? It was me and my wife in a bar with a group of strangers. All men. They were friendly, all getting drunk together and my wife got very drunk.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? It wasn’t planned, it began with one guy dancing sexually with her. I was watching. They went to the toilets together, I think some foreplay began in there. She came out, her shirt undone. She introduced herself to a new group of Indian guys who all kissed her. I believe at this point anybody could have fucked her.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? 4 of the guys gave us a lift back to our home. She vomited from the drink. I helped undress her and put her on the sofa naked in between the men. They began sucking her tits and licking her pussy. This ended up with all four of them fucking her vaginally. When they had all finished they left.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We have spoken about it which we use when having sex.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant
What were your motives for this hookup? To feel more desirable, Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it, It was easy / convenient
How intoxicated were you? Completely wasted
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? Drunk/high but not wasted
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Somewhat
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Somewhat
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Nobody
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Her feeling sexy. Using her body to pleasure a group of men.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? We haven’t done it again.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Not really sure
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? No
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? It should not be taboo.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Great site
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