What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 28
What’s your race/ethnicity? Mixed / Multiracial
What continent do you live on? Europe
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
How religious are you? A little
What’s your sexual orientation? Pansexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Gender fluidity
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
How long ago did this hookup happen? About 4 months ago
How would you best classify this hookup? Sex with an ex
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For more than 3 years
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? When we were younger, we went to school together. We used to be an item and I used to think that I’ve never laid eyes on someone as attractive as him; That thought couldn’t be more true – even now more than 15 years later.
We’re now 28, our paths cross about once a year or two. When we meet the sexual tension is unbearable. We usually go out and watch a movie or have something to eat, and every single time the only thing I can think about during is how he would feel inside me. We met up a few times during the last 10 years, most times we would kiss; sometimes we kiss so passionately that I can feel myself dripping in my panties.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? The last two times we met it was too hard to resist and we ended up sleeping together, multiple times. We agreed this arrangement suits us both: no strings attached – just raw passion and sex.
When we sit next to each other, I like to wait for him to make the first move. I always know it’s coming and the anticipation gets me so excited. He gently caresses my face and draws nearer and nearer until our lips meet. That familiar taste, the taste of his mouth, once I taste it I feel my heart racing, I feel yearning all over my body. Then all I can taste is him, all I can feel is the warmth of his body and all I can smell is the scent of his skin; it’s sweet, masculine and simply irresistible.
I went over to his place in the morning and we sat on his bed talking, and that moment I was waiting for arrived and he put his hand on my thigh and drew closer. We spent time kissing and enjoying every second of it. I started to get undressed. He asked me to leave my mini skirt on and take off my panties. I did as he said and I could see in his eyes just how turned on he was.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We had sex twice that morning, it felt amazing having him move inside me. I loved feeling how warm he was inside me, how he filled me and how he came.
He does this thing every time that he knows gets me going in no time. He takes the tips of my fingers into his mouth, one at a time – he kisses, licks and so softly does a sucking motion with his tongue. Although it’s only my finger that is inside his mouth, I can nearly feel it down there. I get wet in an instant. Even sitting here writing about it makes my breathing heavy.
I don’t think there was an inch of my body left unkissed or untouched. I was lying on my back and he was on top of me making his way down my body until he was lying between my legs. He started off by kissing all around, and then he did whatever it is that he did – it felt so good I can’t even describe it. And I came so hard, my hands trembled, my toes curled and I felt a bit dizzy for about 30 seconds after, it was so intense. It was a heavenly moment. We were both so turned on after this and we had sex again, he fucked me fast and hard and spanked me during, I enjoyed that, all I needed at that stage is raw and hard pounding. Oftentimes nowadays when I pleasure myself I go back to this event.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Following this, we met a year and a half later. We were alone in the room, we knew exactly why we were there and what was going to happen next. I nudged him as if to say come on make your move already as I couldn’t contain myself I was lusting for him. We kissed, we touched each other everywhere, we had sex 3 times that evening. The sex was incredible, we wanted each other so bad so it was insanely intense. I enjoyed it so much that I could’ve probably had sex with him another 3 times in a row! I just couldn’t get enough.
We are now awaiting the next time our paths will cross, waiting impatiently.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) IUD (Intrauterine device)
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s)
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? It was fantastic to finally feel him inside me. Considering that we have known each other for so long, it was great to finally see what it feels like.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? I wouldn’t say there was anything negative about the hookup. I would’ve liked to have had more time to spend together, and perhaps have a couple of drinks beforehand to help loosen up.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? If anything it affirmed my attitude and thoughts about casual sex.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I think any type of relationship between any two consenting adults should be respected and tolerated, saying that I’m a causal sex promoter in principle. In practice, I’m less likely to explore and exercise this because my partner doesn’t share my opinion.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? It’s great having an outlet where people can share their experiences. I enjoy reading quite a few of the stories, although some seem rather fictitious.
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