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What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 41
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Oklahoma City
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Business
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 20
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

Nympho Ex-Girlfriend Hookup

How long ago did this hookup happen? 20 years

What was your relationship status at the time? Single

How would you best classify this hookup? Sex with an ex

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For 1 to 3 years

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? D and I had dated for about a 1 1/2 years about a year prior to this hookup. She was my first serious girlfriend, we dated for all of our college freshman year and half of our sophomore year. It was a horrible relationship, I was stupidly possessive and she wasn’t really that into me. She probably cheated on me multiple times looking back. She definitely cheated on me once, that led to our break up. D had a great body though, about 5’4, small firm tits, tight muscular ass, slim waist and nice legs. Very petite with a tight pussy. She was sexually insatiable, wanted to fuck every day. One time I didn’t feel like it and she just stripped and was all over me. D loved her pussy ate and came really hard. She wouldn’t bang without a condom even though she was on the pill but she loved to fuck. I was a virgin our first time and was so nervous that I couldn’t get hard. We rented a hotel room for the second try and I came six times, still a record. She loved her asshole played with when she was riding my cock. Looking back I’m sorry that I didn’t experiment with her more. She was a total freak, think we could have done group stuff. One night during the Spring semester of our sophomore year she told me she wanted to go put partying with some friends.
She never drank and when I ran into her at a party she was wasted and a total bitch. I went to her apartment later and she freaked out again. There was a guy I knew there who I thought was with her roommate. The next day she came to my apartment and told me that she had fucked him. I screamed at her and was heartbroken. Tried to reconcile a couple days later, I didn’t want to fuck her but ate her pussy for some reason. Turned out she was just looking for a way to break up with me.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I was at my apartment alone about a year after D and I broke up. Someone knocked on my door and it was her and a guy. She was totally wasted and asked if she could stay there. I was worried and said yes. Pretty sure the guy had thought he was going to get some which was really weird.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? As soon as we were in bed she was all over me. Don’t remember much about the sex or if we even fucked. I might have just eaten her out. She was definitely horny but drunk. Unremarkable experience.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? A little

Did you have an orgasm? I don’t know

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I went to her place a couple days later but it was obvious she had no interest in me. After that she was always a bitch anytime we saw each other. About 10 years later she reached out to me but I ignored her. I just sent her an email because writing this made me remember what a freak she was.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms, Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant

What were your motives for this hookup? Attraction to partner(s), Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it, It was easy / convenient

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Completely wasted

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Not at all

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I didn’t give a clear ‘yes’, but I didn’t give a ‘no’

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? I don’t know / I’m not sure

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They didn’t give a clear ‘yes’, but didn’t give a ‘no’

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? A little bit

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure

Do you regret this hookup? A little bit

Why do you regret this hookup? She was drunk, I didn’t want it.

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Not much

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Her attitude toward me afterward

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? No

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Not at all positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I have no problem with casual sex in theory but have repeatedly betrayed my wife.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Interesting

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