What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 30
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? Norway / Oslo
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? A little
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 10
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
Our last fuck
How long ago did this hookup happen? 5 years
What was your relationship status at the time? Single
How would you best classify this hookup? Short fling
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a month
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Donna, five years younger than me, Dutch, blonde hair, sexy ass, nice tits and firm body. I met her at a nightclub in Oslo where she lived for six months during her studies. I met her a month before she had to leave back to the Netherlands. We didn’t hook up the first night, but switched numbers. I sent her a text a couple of days later, and we had several amazing fuck sessions during her last month in Norway.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? On her last night in Norway, we planned to meet at her student house where she stayed during her visit. First we had some food and went back to her room for a glass of wine. I showed her the pack of condoms i had brought which included condoms, a vinrating cock ring and some lube. She got really turned on and suggestet that we should take a shower together. In the shower I started sucking her nipples and touching her clit. After a while, she went down on her knees and started sucking my allready hard cock. After a while i came in her mouth, and said: Now it`s your turn.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I showed her down on the bed, an started teasing her with my fingers and tounge. She was really wet, and i started slowly licking her. As I continued eating her out, i put in a finger, and rubbed her G-spot. After some minutes, she started shaking and breathing heavily. I continued till she came. After getting her breath back, she started teasing my cock again, and said she wanted to fuck with the vibrating cock ring. She took my cock in her mouth and used her tounge under the head, which I really enjoyed. I put on a condom and started fucking her missionary. After a while i strapped the cock ring around my penis and turned the power on. And WOW – she really liked cock and a vibrator on her clit.
Fifteen minutes of really hard pounding she went on top, she pressed her clit against my pelvis bone where the vibrator on the ring was attached. Again she started shaking and really screaming – her neighbors must really have heard us that night. I could feel her juices from her vagina around my cock and balls. It really turned me on, but since I came during showering earlier i still had some time to go. Her clit was a bit sensitive, so i took the ring of and started fucking her from behind.
I asked if she liked a finger in her ass while fucking, and she replied YES! I lubed her up and started fingering her tight asshole. After some time i pushed in two fingers and continued for a short time – feeling my orgasm reaching. I asked her if she was into anal sex. She had never tried it before, but was open to try it since she still was horny and liked the feeling of two fingers there. I used more lube and slowly started pressing my cock inside her ass.
I could see she she was enjoying it. As there still was some power on the battery on the cock ring, she strapped it around her fingers and started fingering herself doggy position while I was pounding her ass. This put her over the edge again, and I came to the point of no return. I pulled out, ripped of the condom and came all over her back. Some of the sperm also came in her hair, and after some cuddling and resting we went back to the shower to clean up.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? After showering we were really tired. We emptyed the bottle of wine we opened earlier that evening and fell asleep naked and exhausted. The morning after she was a bit stressed about her flight at noon, so there was no time for more fucking. I have not met her since, but i still get horny when I think of our last night together. We still have contact via Facebook, but since I’m in a relationship, i would not have sex with her again if i meet her.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms, Discussed STI testing history
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, Emotional intimacy, closeness, connection
How intoxicated were you? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I told some of my friends about her and that we had sex – vaginal, oral and anal, but I did not share the details.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? To please her with several orgasms and kinky sex. Also be the first to fuck her in the ass. And I really liked her, I dit not have romantic feelings for her, but she was a really nice girl.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Nothing.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? No
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I have had several casual sex partners, for me it’s really nice to enjoy casuall sex when I’m single. I’m also a fan of women’s right to be horny and enjoy casual sex. Some of my friends consider girls who has casual sex as sluts. I think that’s wrong. Both men and women should enjoy casual sex.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Love it!
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