by Ashleigh
Gender: Female

Age: 19
Race/ethnicity: Caucasian
Location: Australia
Highest education you have received: High school diploma
Occupation: Sales and Marketing Administrator
Religious affiliation: N/A
How religious are you? Not at all
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
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How long ago did this hookup happen? 2 months

How would you best classify this hookup? booty call

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I had met him once before when I was on the rebound from my ex and slept with him then as sort of a 1 night stand situation. We ended up adding each other on Facebook and started texting but it was only the very occasional ‘hi hows it going.’ He was quite good looking and a similar age to me, but with a very arrogant attitude which I think was 1/2 put on to try and come across as a ‘player.’

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We both found out that the other was going to be at the same event (a small music festival) and while it was never mentioned, I knew it was going to happen because why not? We got along ok, neither of us wanted a relationship and the sex was pretty good (if not slightly drunken last time).

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We were both quite drunk and had been dancing/talking/kissing all night so when we made it back to his tent it was quite rushed. We only had vaginal sex and he was drunk and struggling to finish so I ended up on top but we were both too drunk and tired (and cold) to get much more adventurous. He did wear a condom but it broke and in our haste we failed to find another. I stayed the night and we chatted in the morning but we haven’t talked since.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? A condom (until it broke) and he didn’t finish so I wasn’t stressed about pregnancy. We didn’t discuss STIs.

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? Because I wanted to have sex, as I enjoy it.

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? Yes, alcohol. Enough to be drunk, but remember everything.

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I was fine. It showed me that while he’s an alright bloke, we have nothing in common. It basically scratched an itch and I’m still fine about it.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I’ve told my friends and they all congratulated me.

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Yes

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? No

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Best – I hadn’t had sex in a while so that was good. Worst – condom breaking and him not being able to finish. It hasn’t changed anything.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

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