What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 28
What’s your race/ethnicity? Southeast Asian
What continent do you live on? Australia
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (currently pursuing)
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Atheist
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 2-3
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? Too many
Reunited with him on new years day
How long ago did this hookup happen? Today
What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For 1 to 3 years
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I am back with another story. The non-hookup story of a different person that I posted 2 months ago didn’t continue and so I have moved on. The person in this story is the one I had a casual arrangement last year. 4 months later after it ended (see previous stories), he is now living with his room-mate not far from my place and in his new job. In between that time, I kept in touch time to time at work, mainly b’day and xmas greetings. I wasn’t expecting a message from him until today..
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? He messaged me to greet happy new year and I messaged him back and then he asked what I was up to today. I was still at home and then asked if I wanted to come over. His room-mate was away and was feeling bored and lonely.This was a good opportunity to hook-up with him again. So I went out of the house and told my parents that I was going walking as an excuse to go to his house. With google maps in hand and just in time before the rain started, I pressed on the doorbell of his place and let me in.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I went into this bedroom and just watching youtube. We chitchatted to see how his current job was going and things were going and seemed to enjoy his current job. He was excited to see me again and then he took out his dick, then took off my top and pulled down my pants to reveal a purple thong. I gave him a blow-job and then took his shorts off. Then I got onto his bed with my butt in front of him and then removed my thong which showed my recently waxed pussy. He definitely missed seeing my butt and pussy and couldn’t wait to fuck me.
We got into doggy with my pussy slightly wet and then he slid his dick in. It felt really good to feel his dick again and him feeling my pussy again. He then thrust deeply and fingered me slightly but wanted his dick instead. We went into reverse cowgirl so he could see my butt and touch it. Then I got on top and fucked a little. Then it was doggy for a short time and with a short pump, he came hard all over my back and warm too.
We rested and watched the latest UFC post fight videos on youtube and then we fucked again doggy harder this time. I squirted on his bed sheet and had a towel placed underneath. Then he thrust harder and with each squirt and then I came and couldn’t keep his dick away from me… Moments later after some hard fast pumps he came on the towel.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We watched a few more youtube videos and talked about how things were in my current place of work. His job goes between two sites and he may move down further when the time comes. I also mentioned wanting to move onto new opportunities outside my current workplace. Then he showered and I got changed to go home in the sprinkling rain. All good.
I know it’s not going to be regular hookup now but if he’s still in the area and wants to message me whilst his room-mate is away, then why not?
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Withdrawal, Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), To feel better about myself, Boredom, It was easy / convenient
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Reuniting with my fuck buddy, who still lives in my area. Him cumming hard the first time we fucked and feeling his dick again. Basically hooking up and fucking after a couple of months. I feel really good and satisfied and so was he.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Nothing really. We can only fuck when he has the house to himself and he may move away from the area to be closer to the second site of his work when it comes.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Personally I wasn’t expecting to message me after he left my workplace 4 months ago. In between, I had a short casual fling but didn’t go all the way and I chose not to continue and a family loss and not being fulfilled at work which took my focus away from my sexual desires.
I have an app on my phone (Pure) and haven’t used it as of yet but may use it in the future.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? We’ll keep in touch time to time again via whatever I choose. He still has my number so can message me if still in the area during this time. All good
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? Do it at your own pace and when you feel like it. Just as long as there is respect with each other then its ok. I am keen on future experiences when it comes and just taking it as it comes. I really enjoy and like sex so it was good to experience with him again and with whoever I come across in the future.
I feel more positive and alive now and know that it’s not going to go any further.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Glad to share a story again! I really like it.
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