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What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 23
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? Germany
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (currently pursuing)
What’s your occupation? Student
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? A little
What’s your sexual orientation? Pansexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? An ethical slut
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? I stopped counting around 60
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? This is my first
Ringing in the New Year
How long ago did this hookup happen? A few days – New Year’s Eve
What was your relationship status at the time? Single
How would you best classify this hookup? Friends-with-benefits
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For 1 to 3 years
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I’m currently studying in Europe and hadn’t been home for over a year, but I went home this year for Christmas and New Year’s. One of the friends I most wanted to see there was Keira (not her real name), a girl I had met and grown close to during my senior year of undergrad. Our relationship, besides being classmates and coworkers, had turned into besties that year – we would meet up almost every weekend to drink wine and eat cheese and talk about our sex lives. It turns out we were both also attracted to women, so eventually we started hooking up. She was medium height, medium build, white but with slightly darker skin, and shoulder-length dark brown hair. She’s one of the most intelligent people I know, as well as one of the most sexually open, and our wine nights usually covered topics ranging from politics to the intricacies of consent to cultural appropriation to masturbation techniques. We hooked up on occasion, but it was always just as close friends, nothing romantic or dramatic.We were close friends and knew everything about each others’ sex lives.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I didn’t feel like going out partying for New Year’s Eve, so we made plans to meet at her place for a chill girls’ night over wine and cheese. I did wonder beforehand if we were going to hook up. I felt kind of neutral about it, because I was more interested in catching up with her as a friend, but I figured if it happened I would go with the flow. Well, a bottle of wine later I was feeling definitely *not* neutral about the possibility, so shortly before midnight I said, “Keira, it’s almost midnight. How should we ring in the new year?” With a totally straight face, I continued: “We could toast, we could kiss… or we could start it off with an orgasm.” She looked at me in disbelief and laughed. “Hey, it’s your choice!” I insisted. It was three minutes to midnight. She said, “if we’re going to orgasm by midnight, we need to start like NOW.” I had this little vibrating bullet with me that my ex had gotten me for Christmas and I was really keen to try and use it on both of us at once while scissoring. Pants still on (both of us were wearing leggings), we awkwardly tried to scissor, but we couldn’t get both of our clits lined up to touch the damn thing, so we gave up quickly. We realized her wall clock was slow and her phone said it was already two past midnight, so we nixed that idea and just headed to the bedroom.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end?
We quickly undressed each other (I left my panties on because the birth control I was on was giving me spotting) and cuddled under her blankets. It felt soooo good to be with a girl again. She smelled so good, her hair was long and beautiful, her body so warm and soft. She kept telling me “your skin is so soft!” and we would wriggle closer together, feeling each other up. I was fascinated by her breasts. I have always loved boobs, and hers were just perfect. A C-cup, they were large but proportionate, suuuuper soft, and pillowy, with dark perky nipples in the middle of each one. I kept kissing them, sucking them, laying my head on them and pressing my face between them. She had never talked about being in to pain before, but I noticed when I rolled her nipples between my fingers or sucked them hard, it made her gasp, so I began experimenting with lightly pinching and biting them. It made her moan, and before long she was writhing her hips.
I let my hand travel further south, over her smooth tummy, over her little fuzz of pubic hair, and between her legs. I marveled at how wet she was. Her inner lips hung slightly past her outer ones, and I didn’t even need to enter them to feel her fluids. I experimentally pulled my hand away and a thick string of girl cum clung to it. She giggled nervously. My eyes widened and I looked at her. “That’s so hot,” I told her, both to ease her self-consciousness and because it was true, and I slid my fingers slowly inside of her. Well, I tried to slide them slowly- she was turned on and thrusting her hips, so before long I had two fingers deep inside of her and she was fucking my hand. I curved my fingers up inside of her to reach her g-spot and she moaned like crazy. (People who have sex with women, know this: You cannot put too much pressure on her g-spot. Curl your fingers up, do like you’re trying to burst out of her tummy like in “Alien,” wrap them halfway around her public bone. As long as you watch your fingernails, she can take a lot more than you think without it hurting her.) I knew she masturbated almost exclusively using clitoral stimulation, so this was a lot for her. I began rubbing her clit with the palm of my hand, which made her even wetter and more turned on. The sound of her moaning was making me extremely wet, and I could feel my own clit growing warm and tingly with arousal. I took her hand with my free hand and guided it down to her clit and told her “make yourself cum.” I watched her technique carefully. Still jerking her hips, she closed her eyes and immediately began rubbing her clit through the folds of her labia, deep, hard. I realized my gentle pressure had been enough to tease and arouse her, but this intense stimulation was what she needed to come. We stayed like that for several minutes, her tense and breathless and rubbing her swollen clit fast and hard, me watching her intensely and working her g-spot with short, fast strokes, until she began gasping her breath and tensing and moaning louder, and just when I thought she had already came, she cried out, cum gushed over my fingers, she tensed for a moment and then relaxed, still weakly rocking her hips. I crawled up to lay beside her and kiss her. “That was so hot,” I told her, and we kissed and touched for a few minutes while the cum dried on my fingers.
We were both tipsy and happy and I thought we were going to fall asleep, when she offered to return the favor if I wanted. I was horny and keen to come, but didn’t want to deal with penetration or oral because I was still bleeding a little. Instead, I got the little vibrator, layed on my back, and began massaging my clit with it through my panties, and Keira kissed me and touched me and tweaked my nipples. It felt good, but I quickly realized I wasn’t going to come from it, or at least not easily. Keira asked if there was anything she could do for me. “You’re doing great,” I told her. I laid there for several minutes concentrating on eliciting that warm tingling feeling at the tip of my clit with the little buzzing toy, but it just wasn’t doing it. I needed more. I thought of her pussy and stopped suddenly. “Do you want to sit on my face?” I asked her, thinking the arousal of tasting her pussy would put me over the edge. She paused. “Do you want me to?” “Yes,” I said without hesitation, and I helped her into position. My tongue was met with the salty-metallic tang of her cunt, and I worked her clit with my tongue as her fluids began to mix with my saliva. I lost myself in the moment, no longer concentrating on the individual sensations on my body but just being, and I soon felt the waves of an orgasm growing inside of my. I licked and sucked at her sweet cunt and began rocking my hips, and sort of plateaued, enjoying the moment. I opened my eyes and looked up, past her sweet cunt on my face and further up, and to my surprise I got absolutely the hottest under-boob view I had ever seen. Her breasts were full and round at the bottom and her nipples stuck straight out, contrasting prominently with the ceiling in my view. My eyes rolled from sheer pleasure and I reached up to squeeze one of her soft, round tits, then focused my attention back to my clit. That wonderful distraction was all I needed, and a moment later I rolled over the edge, a sweet orgasm washing over me, and my moan was muffled by her pussy, which just turned us on even more.
We fell asleep spooning, which I had actually not done with a girl before, and indulged in some sweet pillow talk, some “I’m so glad we’re friends” and “it’s just so different with a girl” and “I feel really comfortable around you.” I woke up in the morning with a beautiful naked woman beside me and I just had to fuck her again, this time being rougher with her, tweaking her nipples a little harder, and then later slapping her tits as we fucked (which was a little weird and we hadn’t talked about it but it turned us both on so I kept at it.) I teased her about having a submissive streak, tried (unsuccessfully) to come myself, before reluctantly getting out of bed, getting dressed, and saying goodbye.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I was glowing afterwards. I had never had a female friend so close, so deep, that I could also have sex with. I cherished our friendship so much and I told her so. I was singing the whole car ride home.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) IUD (Intrauterine device), Discussed STI testing history
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, Emotional intimacy, closeness, connection, It was easy / convenient
How intoxicated were you? A little tipsy/high
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? Drunk/high but not wasted
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I was texting my ex boyfriend that same night with things like “Do you think I can get Keira to hook up with me?” and “wish granted” and “thx for the vibrator” so he knew immediately. I bragged to a couple of my friends in Germany that I’d started the new year so well. My ex thought it was funny and my friends thought it was cool, though they may have been a little jealous.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Unlike times we’d hooked up in the past where we were both a little nervous, this time me and my friend felt totally comfortable around each other. We both knew each other’s insecurities and were careful to compliment each other on them (me saying how much it turned me on to see her pussy so wet, her saying she loved my small firm boobs, things like that.)
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? I’m back in Germany and don’t know when I’ll see her again. Now I miss her a lot more again.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? A little, because I’ve always been at least a little nervous around cute girls. I guess I haven’t had this deep of a friendship and sexual attraction to someone before without having any romantic feelings for them, and I’ve never been this deep “in friends” with someone before.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I love casual sex and consider random hookups a hobby. I love having new sexual experiences, new sexual partners, and I’ve dabbled in BDSM for several years. Of course I wish people wouldn’t shame people for the choices they make with their own bodies, and I wish there were more access to sex education and affordable birth control.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? I adore it. While it’s fun to wank to the sexy stories, it’s fun to read some of the not-perfect ones as well. Our society has such a taboo around sex, most of the only sex “stories” people are exposed to are totally fake, too-perfect plots of porn and romance novels. It’s great to hear the real stuff, too, even when it’s not 100% positive.
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