What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 32
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? United States
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Marketing
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (open)
Religious affiliation: Agnostic
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Sexually Inexperienced
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 4
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
How long ago did this hookup happen? Last week.
What was your relationship status at the time? Engaged/Married (open)
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than 6 months
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I’m sexually inexperienced. I’d been wanting to change that and he seemed eager to help. We’d planned this for months and the day was here. I was in another country and not even sure if he’d even show up but then the knock on hotel room number 801 happened. Without any hesitation, I opened the door. This is happening. Here he was in front of me and I was nervous, I told him so. He said he was nervous his first time also. We ordered drinks, seems like they’re taking forever to get to us. I’m sat in office chair facing him, he’s on the chaise in-front of the bed. We made awkward small talk for 15 minutes or so. He got up and walked to the other side of the suite to look around and I see a perfectly sculpted ass in jeans looked to have been made for him …and compliment him on it. He tells me his other jeans look better on him. My first thought was how, my second thought was damn, why didn’t he wear those? He comes back to sit down and without second thought I tell him he should take off his jeans, I want to appreciate his ass. He says he will only if he can take off his socks, for the full effect. I’m not going to argue that logic. He takes off his clothes and is standing there. I nervously tell him he looks like a horse from the waist down. Im clearly not thinking things through when his naked body is in front of me. I walk up to him to touch his chest, his back, he feels like heaven in my hands. His body couldn’t be made more perfectly. I sit back down, my nerves are starting to shift to arousal. He says I now should take something off. I look to the door and wonder where the hell are our drinks are but still I ask what he wants me to take off. He asked for me to take off my skirt. As I slowly remove my skirt in one shimmy I look at him processing my undressing. He closes his eyes in pleasure and stands up to help me remove my shirt. He kisses me, he moves to my neck. Ohhhh. I told him about my love of this, clearly he remembered. My body is putty in his hands. His hands now running up and down my body, around my ass. To my pussy. One finger enters me, slowly going in and out. He continues kissing me as my hands discover his body, I grab his dick through his boxers. He feels amazing in my hands, As I kiss his amazingly developed shoulders he picks me up and places me on the chaise in-front of the bed. He gets on the floor and spreads my legs. He takes me in his mouth. My hips squirm, I grab on his hair, when I think I can’t handle anymore he puts one of his perfect fingers in me and continues to lick. He picks me up again and throws me on to the bed. He can’t stop, he loves licking my pussy. Pulsating his finger, flicking his tongue he says “you like that?” In that amazing voice, It turns me on more. Looking down and seeing this beautiful specimen of a man in between my legs, I did. With my legs squirming and my toes curled, I came all over his face. He knows he’s good. He leaned up to meet my lips, we kissed. This mans tongue was forged by the gods. Every woman needs to be kissed the way this man kisses. I start stroking his cock while we’re kissing I needed to taste him. With my legs still spread around him, I lean over and take him in my mouth. He has the type of cock that belongs in a mouth. This day, I was blessed to have it in mine. Knock Knock. “Room Service”. Really, right now. He gets up and hurries to the restroom, I throw on a robe and open the door. The lovely room service chap tried to bring in the drinks in the room but I kindly declined and took the tray and closed the door behind me. When he walks out of the loo we both grab our drinks and as if I’m just now seeing him naked for the first time I catch another glimpse of his perfectness. His face, that hair, his body, his good nature. How doesn’t he have fucked up teeth at least? In that moment I put my drink down and dropped to my knees. I needed his veiny, sexy cock in my mouth. Slowly I licked the side of his cock, I took him in my mouth and felt him grow bigger against my cheeks, my lips. As I reach around to feel his perfect ass, I look up at him with my piercing green eyes. He liked that. He tells me to look at him again, I do. I keep eye contact for a few moments. I feel his body peak, he’s about to explode. His cock is throbbing so much it’s making my pussy wet. I feel a few drops fall on my calf. He tells me he’s about to cum and asks if it’s ok to cum in my mouth. I tell him yes, I want to taste him. I need to taste him. I did.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? He connected w me to make sure I made it home. I surprisingly felt amazing. This was the first time I’d had sex outside my husband in 5 years! It was exciting!
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, Emotional intimacy, closeness, connection, Submission / Relinquishing power
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Just a few friends and they were cautious and nervous of me participating.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Mixed (Some positive, some negative)
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? The way he initially stood up and grabbed me. OMG.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Nothing
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Yes – the realization that sex can be just that!!
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? This is a new road my husband and I are participating but it’s exciting 🙂
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? This is pretty dang cool! This helps people like me, like us.
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