What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 27
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? Scotland
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Arts
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Bisexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? With prefernece to women
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 37
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 8
Sex down by the Loch
How long ago did this hookup happen? 4 years ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Caz was a red head (always a turn on) first year at my university who was just starting the same course as me while I was going into third year. She was 17 (legal here) large and was pretty in the face. I met her at a back to school night that was being held at my uni for fresher’s week (i hated school, why anyone would want to go back after just leaving has always confused me). Naturally everyone was dressed in sexy school uniforns and UV paint along with whatever someone had written on them with a marker pen.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I was attending the event with the university TV station as part of our fresher’s week coverage, so really we were there to film and get drunk. I met Caz on the dancefloor which was packed at this time and we got chatting. I was instantly attracted to her and found out she was doing the same degree as me.
I bumped into her later and we started dancing close. Sensing the tension I made a move and kissed her. She kissed back and we spent quite a bit of time just making out. Eventually we decided to go back to her place, though she wasn’t a hundred percent convinced.
However upon getting there I was denied entrance by the night porter as I didn’t live there and lived in town. She didn’t leave though and we tried to think of another idea. I suggested going down by the loch that was on campus as it was dark there and away from everything else. She agreed and went there.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We got down on the ground and started kissing again. I started exploring her body and kissing her neck, which she liked. I reached up her skirt and started rubbing her through her panties. This led to me inserting two fingers into her and started moaning. I did this for a few minutes until she came and we got a condom out of my wallet.
The sex was great. I was hard and had no problem fucking her. She moaned at each thrust and ground her hips in response. A few times I thrust deep into her and she let out a loud moan each time. We lost count of how many times I made her cum. I remember her saying ‘Thank God I went for this’ as I thrust deep inside her.
While she came a lot, I wasn’t able to at the time. After a while I had to stop and she offered to give me a hand job. I lay back and let her go to work. During this I’m sure someone saw us because I heard a startled shout from up ahead, but whoever it was never re appeared.
After a few minutes of hand relief I came we exchanged numbers. She went back to her dorm and I headed back to join my friends.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I invited Caz around a few days later and met her at the uni and then we went back to my place, which was student residences just not on campus. We had sex again and again it was awesome. She screamed the place down. She also said I was much better than she remembered (another ego boost).
We never really hooked up again after. I ran into her at a club a few years later and we were all over each other and made plans to hook up again soon. But that never happened. I’m still facebook friends with her and if the opportunity came up again I’d take it.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s)
How intoxicated were you? A little tipsy/high
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? A little tipsy/high
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? While I didn’t tell anyone. My friends had seen my leave and knew exactly what had happened when I got back. My shirt was also covered in grass stains, so any attempt at subtlety was gone.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Neutral
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Having amazing sex outdoors and making Caz cum multiple times.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Nothing really, except a bed might have been more fun.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? If anything it just reaffirmed why I like casual sex.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I think casual sex is awesome and think more people should be open to it.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? A great website for learning about casual sex.
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