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What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 70
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? New York
Highest education received: Some college (not currently in college)
What’s your occupation? retired
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Somewhat
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? over 50
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 2

Sexy, Hot, Wanting and Needing-Chance Hookup

How long ago did this hookup happen? 25 yrs ago

What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status

How would you best classify this hookup? Friends-with-benefits

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For 1 to 3 years

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Beautiful young woman married with two children, short brown hair, flirtatious but not overly outgoing, great personality. She worked in a local store that I frequented and knew the owners of for many years. She always looked and smelled good, always smiling and from the first time I met her there was a connection, couldn’t put my finger on it, but we immediately knew that we liked each other. I don’t know if she felt the same way as me but I wanted her sexually. Little innuendos between us became more and more friendly and loving some sexual in nature. She never tried to stop the come ons and over time they got better and better. She gave me her number and told me to call and what time to call, she also told me how to get in touch with her at work so the bosses wouldn’t realize it was me calling.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? It began one time when my wife was out of town, she had known that she was going and told me to call her. I called her and asked if she wanted to go to dinner, she immediately said yes. We met at a nice restaurant had dinner, she looked fantastic, we both were a little nervous which was par for the course. You could say we both instigated it, I could not believe that it was really going to happen and still didn’t know why. Her husband tended bar on Friday nights and her kids were always with his mother or her mother so it was perfect.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We had dinner then went, like little kids behind a set of buildings where we made out in the car. She was so hot and so was I. We both wanted to touch each other and we did. I was able to finger fuck her in the car as she played with my cock. I sucked on her nipples and played with her breasts, she was so hot. She must have cum about ten times that night. It was amazing, she wanted so much more but the place we were wasn’t safe.
The night ended very nicely she went we made arrangements to meet again. The next hookup with her was actually at her house on Friday night when her husband wasn’t home. It was a little scary at first but we both got used to it. The affair continued for almost five years. She loved to fuck, suck and be eaten which I gladly did. She had the most beautiful shaved and manicured pussy. I would eat her make her wet and cum then stick my cock in her, she would want to taste me all the time which was great. I didn’t want to cum in her mouth, she wanted it but I really didn’t. She was the best lover that I ever had she liked to be touched around her asshole and licked there, this was a little new to me but I obliged her and that led to a whole different type of kinky sex with her. She had a few toys stashed away that she said she kept hidden from her husband, he didn’t like kinky things and shyed away from that type of sex. All he wanted was to do the deed get it over with and go to sleep. Her and I made love with each other for hours each time better than the last, it was very gratifying and satisfying for the both of us. We didn’t talk about much and the possibility of either of us leaving our partners never came up. This relationship between us was strictly for sex and gratification and it worked out fine for the both of us. It ended badly I moved away five years later and although we kept in contact via phone after I left we never saw each other again…:( very sad to this day…still think about her…she won’t take my calls…

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We never worried about the next day after meeting and having the sexual encounters that we did. We never felt any remorse over the time we spent together we were both going thru times in our marriages that we needed to have an outside interest, and we found that in each other. We never had any expectations that our trysts would lead to anything more than an affair, and it never did. We were together for almost five years and enjoyed every minute of that time. I know I felt good and still feel the same way, I only wish I knew how she now felt..

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, Emotional intimacy, closeness, connection, It was easy / convenient, To enjoy the pleasures of sex with a new partner, to see how another woman made love compared to my wife and I wasn’t disappointed. She wanted to also experience a new and different sexual partner, one who could satisfy her and not leave her with unfilled passion. We both satisfied each other and had NO regrets.

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Never spoke to anyone about the affair…

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? A little bit

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? A little bit

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? I was able to experience the real sexual needs, wants and desires of a woman who wanted to make love not just have sex. This woman was a fantastic lover, I could never understand why her husband wasn’t that way or what she saw in him except security. We never wanted for anything when we were together.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? It ending the way it did.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? No casual sex is the best especially when there are no expectations of any further commitment that would lead to divorce. Neither this woman nor I ever wanted that and never even considered it. Our feeling never got hurt and I have NO remorse at all.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? I’m so sorry it ended…if I had the chance I would do it all over again.

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I would like to see more casual sex between consenting adults, there is nothing wrong with it and it promotes a better way of life.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Love being able to air what had and has transpired in my life…and no I don’t have any regrets for any of the many hook ups…

You have a hookup story to share? Submit it here!

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