What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 28
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Europe
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your occupation? IT
What’s your current relationship status?
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Considering polyamory
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 5
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 3
Sneaking around at the office
How long ago did this hookup happen? Few hours
What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status
How would you best classify this hookup? Fuck-buddies / Booty call
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For 1 to 3 years
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? He is the most bold AND bald guy I’ve ever met..! So arrogant, so sure he can have sex with me whenever he wants to, and he’s right too… Tall, masculine man with the most charming grin on his face. I’ve hooked up before with him about 5 times. We’re colleagues. Right before the hookup I was kind of disappointed with him because we were going to have sex the night before and it didn’t happen because he was feeling sick. So I was pleasantly surprised when today he decided he was more horny than sick.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? It was a Friday afternoon at the office. We were doing drinks with colleagues to celebrate the weekend. At some point, the last one left and told us jokingly: “Don’t stay down here for too long you two…” Well, maybe it wasn’t a joke, because everyone knows that we are both sexual people and we don’t let anything hold us back when it comes to that.
I was talking when he suddenly told me to come closer and put his hand on my leg. He then asked me if I wanted to go to another room where no one was going to find us, and I agreed.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? When we got there, he immediately put his hand down my pants. He told me the (fake) leather I was wearing looked good on me and he had been turned on by me all day. He told me how he had fantasized about fingering me, licking me, fucking me. He then lifted up my shirt and pulled down my bra, to stroke and suck my nipples. He said he couldn’t kiss me because he had a cold. I then turned around and positioned my ass against his crotch, and I told him that way I wouldn’t get sick. We didn’t have a condom but we both wanted to have sex badly. So he unzipped his pants, I started jerking him off while he fingered me from the back and told me how wet I felt. No surprise there… He then started to fuck me in the ass, as I told him to slow down because it hurt a bit too much, without more drinks or lube… I wanted it badly and at the same time feared the pain. He did it a few more times before he pulled out (just how I like it… I’m attracted to him because he leads the way) and started to jerk off while telling me he was going to make me feel real dirty. I told him to cum on my ass, and that’s exactly what he did… Afterwards, he told me not to move because I would dirty his sweater. I laughed and told him there were tissues nearby because we were in the room where the cleaning lady keeps her stuff. We started to laugh and he wiped me off with tissues. I gave him a quick kiss on the cheek. Then we both put our pants back on and went back to the kitchen to get another beer. Just a minute later, a colleague came down, we had no idea there was still someone in the building. He joined us for drinks and I know we both got an even greater kick out of knowing we were not alone while it happened…
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? No, not even close
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We went back to talking, drinking beers and laughing, like nothing happened (or exactly like something happened, because this is what we always do after sex) and we agreed to repeat this next week when we’d have some more time for it. It’s only happened a few hours ago but right now I’m feeling real good about what happened.
My expectations/hopes are that it will stay this way between us for a long time, this was the first time we had a quicky but we usually have sessions of sex in different positions where I do things for the first time and always feel good and happy afterwards. No love is involved and that’s fine, I know it’s not just sexual though because at work we have long, intensive talks about private or business matters very often and we really try to help each other out there as well.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) none
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s)
How intoxicated were you? A little tipsy/high
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? A little tipsy/high
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one. And probably never will, hooray for not having sex to impress others! 🙂
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? First time having actual sex at work!! Great risk of getting caught! Plus I was disappointed no sex took place the day before and this compensated for that ^_^
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? N/A
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? No
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? No
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? Casual sex has had a very mixed role in my life, sometimes disappointing me and making me think I should just stick to a monogamous relationship and at other times (like with this specific man) making me feel real good about myself and making me think I love men so much I will never be able to commit to just ONE man.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Fantastic! That’s why I keep coming back to the site to read and write stories.
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