What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 25
What’s your race/ethnicity? Southeast Asian
What continent do you live on? Asia
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Culinary Instructor
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? more than 10
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? none
Someone at Work
How long ago did this hookup happen? a week ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
How would you best classify this hookup? Fuck-buddies / Booty call
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than 6 months
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I met this guy at work, he was tall, average weight probably 160-170lbs. The other side I am a petite woman, only 5’0 average weight. He was my co-worker, we work closely though I’m in a different department. He’s not really my type though I had a dream about fucking him and since then I got somewhat attached and attracted to him physically. We didn’t share much stories before, we rarely chat and I only called his name when I needed his help at work. I had a feeling he was actually trying to get closer to me. I was new in that workplace.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? It was new years eve, I befriended with his roommate, actually a frat-like house he is in. We had couple of drinks before the three of us headed to his place. I felt sleepy and asked his permission to sleep in his room, he said yes. I wasn’t sleepy actually and got so horny about him and he told me he felt that too. He changed clothes and lied down next to me, he asked me if it was okay for him sleeping next to me. I rolled around and saw him in the eyes, and all I know we just shared kiss.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We shared passionate kisses, he tongue-kissed me and I was so intense. We stripped down our pants and I got on top of him. We fucked cowgirl before I asked him to fuck me from behind. He finished before me, but i didn’t wait too long before his dick got erect again and we fucked again. Three times that night. Then we fell asleep. I woke up early and I felt his flaccid dick, I got down and gave him a blowjob, he woke up and started fucking me missionary until we both came and fell asleep again.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I felt a lil bit awkward at work when I met him the other day, but everything went normal and sometimes we steal kisses at work when nobody’s around. And he’s still my fuckbuddy until now. Quickie before work really boosts my mood. My marriage kinda lack of sex.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) IUD (Intrauterine device)
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Intoxication, I was feeling lonely, Boredom, Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it
How intoxicated were you? Drunk/high but not wasted
What substances did you consume? Alcohol, Prescription sedatives (Valium, Xanax, Diazepam, Quaaludes, Phenobarbital)
How intoxicated was your partner? Drunk/high but not wasted
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Somewhat
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I don’t know / I’m not sure
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? nobody
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? A little bit
Why do you regret this hookup? I betrayed my partner
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? It was fun and satisfying.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? He’s not my type and his dick fairly small
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? i don’t know. not sure.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Not at all positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Very negative
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? it is fun
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? nice place to share
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