by Gay Divorcée
What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 54
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Canada, Ottawa
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Agnostic
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Shifting gears after monogamy
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 50+
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None
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How long ago did this hookup happen? Today
What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status
How would you best classify this hookup? Fuck-buddies / Booty call
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than 6 months
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? He is a forty something heavily tattooed thin ginger….
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We met through an online dating site. We have had an FWB relationship ever since.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We have had ora, and vaginal intercourse throughout our friendship. He is amazingly good at using his hands to reach my G-spot. He has become fascinated with my squirting which he believed was pee. He shared that he wanted to share golden showers while making me squirt. Well he started making me cum with his fingers, using up to four. We have talked about fisting and that is still on our agenda. This time while stimulating my g-spot he was sucking on my clit and I had the most intense orgasm…I squirted a stream while he urinated and it was incredibly satisfying. We ended by fucking doggystyle and he came inside my soaking wet pussy.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I feel bit sore from the high intensity finger fucking but my pussy contracted for hours after. We will try to repeat this experience again.
We have deep meaningful conversations after and before we meet. The sexual chemistry is amazing between us.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None, Discussed STI testing history
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, To feel better about myself, To feel more desirable, To cheer myself up, Revenge / Getting even
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Not a soul, but wish my ex could have heard my loud appreciation of the best orgasm I have enjoyed ever since we have been married.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? It was delicious made me feel desired and powerful.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? I am moving away and we may not be able to see each other in the future.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? It has been part of a journey I have set before myself. My past failed marriages and sexual dissatisfaction are but shadows, my pleasure and ability to share GGG sexual encounters are what I chose to experience moving forward. The more I experiment the more I feel self assured. Life is too short to have bad or not enough sex!
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? Hope it happens again and again!!!
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? It is essential to truly discover our sexual selves.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? I think this is very useful and can help people express things they tend to hide from the world and themselves.
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