What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 24
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? California
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Masters Student in Biological Sciences
What’s your current relationship status?
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? A little
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 12
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
Stranger on the Dance Floor
How long ago did this hookup happen? 1 week ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status
How would you best classify this hookup? Short fling
How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? My friend Jamie and I had decided to hit one of the clubs in downtown LA as we both had a tough week at work. Jamie told me that he had invited one of his lab mates, (we both work in labs pursuing our masters degrees) Veronica, to the club. Veronica turned out to be a gorgeous blonde with luscious lips and a gorgeous smile. She was wearing a tight black dress that barely stretched past her knees and her breasts seemed like they would spill out from the V-shaped front section of her dress. Aside from her obvious good looks what attracted me to her was that she was incredibly goofy and fun to talk to. As the three of us ordered a few rounds of shots and began to complain about all our respective graduate school woes, a common pressure seemed to lift from our shoulders.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? After the 4th or 5th round of shots, my friend Jamie had to go and use the bathroom. All through the night, Veronica had been innocently brushing up against my body and flashing me deep smiles. With Jamie in the bathroom, she let her hand rest on my jeans as she leaned into my ears and whispered “So are you gonna give me the dance I’ve been waiting for all night or not?” As she said this, I could feel my cock stir to life inside my jeans. She must have felt it too because she let the palm of her hand graze ever so gently across my crotch. Unable to resist the temptation, I pulled her out to the dance floor with me.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? As the music got louder, she started grinding against my already erect cock on the dance floor. Thankfully, the lights all around were very dim so no one could really see what was going on between the two of us on the dance floor. While grinding, she leaned her head back and kissed my lips with her full, ripe lips, allowing my hands to roam all over her black dress. Although my hands had started out at a respectable position near her stomach, they soon found themselves softly squeezing her amazing breasts through the fabric of her dress. I thought that this might cause her to get uncomfortable but instead she started grinding harder on my cock. As my left hand kept squeezing her breast, my right hand traveled downwards and started massaging her thighs just underneath the hem of her dress. The friction between our bodies was threatening to erupt and before the dance floor caught fire, she pulled me towards one of the walls of the club which was a little more secluded and the light was much dimmer. Here she faced the wall and allowed me my fingers to slowly reach all the way under her dress and start stroking her wet underwear. All this while Veronica kept grinding against my cock till we were almost fucking with each other with our clothes on. We kept going for a few more minutes till I was unable to control myself and came on her ass within my jeans.At this point, my fingers were already dipped inside her panties and I could feel her wetness all around them.Carefully, we then composed ourselves and headed back to the bar where Jamie was looking all around puzzled. As we sat down, Jamie asked us where we were. I was about to come up with some excuse when Veronica told him that we were fingering each other on the dance floor. Later on I learned from Jamie that she had done the same thing to him a few months ago and that she often visited this night club because it helped her destress from the rigors of graduate level pressures which she faced everyday. Hell, I wasn’t complaining.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? I don’t know
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We texted each other a few times afterwards and she came over to my place whenever she had to release some of her stress and didn’t have enough money (lol graduate school) to go out to the city. On these occassions she blew me and we had sex a few times. However, nothing compared to the electrical first night.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) No penetrative sex happened
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Intoxication, I was feeling lonely, Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it
How intoxicated were you? Drunk/high but not wasted
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? Drunk/high but not wasted
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? My friend Jamie. He laughed and said that Veronica had done the same thing with him a few months ago.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? The spontaneity
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? I was scared because there were so many people around us
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I think that all human beings should be able to feel comfortable in taking charge of their bodies and their sexual desires without having to fact judgement.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? I love this website!!
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