What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 22
What’s your race/ethnicity? East Asian
What continent do you live on? Europe
Highest education received: Some college (not currently in college)
What’s your occupation? Bartender
What’s your current relationship status? Dating casually
Religious affiliation: Agnostic
How religious are you? A little
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 5
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None
What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I met him at my workplace. He was one of our customers and he was having whisky, on the rocks, double which I find very sexy. Let’s call him K. At first I didn’t really notice how he looked like as the place was buzzing, and it was too dark. (I work in a club.)
So yeah, he called me over and apparently he told me that the whisky was “nicely poured.” I was like, dude, it’s just a whisky. He’s probably a people person since he’s really great with talking to others, he sounded very smart and proper and that’s very unlikely you talk to someone like that inside a club since I mostly deal with drunk people. So my attention was all over him, I had a few shots that night so I was a bit tipsy as well. We were already flirting with each other. Also, I notice how buff and tall he is, and he had stunning eyes and long lashes. He asked me if I wanted to come with him to his hotel room. I agreed as long as he can wait for me to finish my shift.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? After work we had a few drinks, he accidentally spilled some all over me. He apologized non-stop so I kind of got irritated and I know he noticed that. I told him I felt really sleepy and said that maybe we could call it a night. So he agreed, but we exchanged numbers. Before parting ways with him here’s how our supposedly final conversation went:
K: Come on, are you sure? Do you at least wanna give this a shot? What do you want? Anything, tell me.
Me: No, K. I’m good, we’re good. I just want to go home, take a hot shower and sleep.
K: I have that all in my hotel (it was one of the finest hotels in my city). Hungry? No problem, we can call for room service.
Me: I said I’m fine. Okay?
K: Alright. But in fifteen seconds I’m getting a cab. But still up to you if you want to come and this give this a chance. *he started hailing a cab
Me: FINE, K. STOP THE TALKING, I’M COMING.
In his hotel room, I immediately sunk on the couch. I said, “You promised me you’ll give me anything, so let me sleep.”
“Do you want food too? I also promised you food. Pizza, I guess? Or what about breakfast (it was already dawn)? Or maybe Strawberry Champagne? Right, Champagne it is. Hold on, let me call for room service.” I rolled my eyes and let him do what he want to do, I was starting to fall asleep on his hotel room couch but the sound of the doorbell has completely woken me up. There’s this guy from the hotel bringing in two bottles of expensive champagnes. I thought it would be rude if I didn’t drink some, so a glass won’t probably hurt.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? One, two, three glasses of champagne, until we finish the two bottles at 8 in the morning. Next thing I know he was unbuttoning my bartending polo. The look on his face when my breasts were revealed was totally priceless. He carried me from the couch and then threw me on the bed. His attention was all over my breasts as well so I thought he must be a boob guy. He began sucking on my breasts, giving them hickies, everything was hot and heavy. He took of his top, showing his body of a god. I mean really, he’s so hot. There was lots of spanking, hair pulling and I really liked it. We did it from there until the afternoon. Both of us were super exhausted.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We cuddled for a couple of hours and until I realized it’s time I leave. So I told him that I’m gonna go take a shower, and leave after that. He didn’t really seem to care and so did I.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None, Withdrawal
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), To feel more desirable
How intoxicated were you? Drunk/high but not wasted
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? Drunk/high but not wasted
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? A little bit
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I didn’t give a clear ‘yes’, but I didn’t give a ‘no’
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? I don’t know / I’m not sure
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? My best friend.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? A little bit
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Sex until the afternoon, his dirty language.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Bruises as he was too aggressive.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative
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