by Giovanni Martinez
Current location: Ibiza
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
Occupation: Science research
Relationship status: Divorced
How religious are you? Somewhat
Sexual orientation: Bisexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? Maybe like 100
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None
How long ago did this hookup happen? 5 years ago
How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? Group sex
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I was on a science trip in saint Thomas after a long day at work I met with a coworker of mine who I had under my wing at the time, he was pretty charming & a bad boy. I kinda liked this kid but nothing like actually was going to happen at least on my part I did think so.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I met my coworker at a local bar we had some heavy drinks all night he was boasting how before the trip was over he was going to break me sexually I would laugh but it was running in my head the more he kept saying it. He has all planned out because I got tired of his bla and told him I was going to teach him what this woman could do to men like him I was going to take him to fuck school so I took him to my hotel but I noticed he was texting on the way there a lot so when we got to my room we just ripped each others clothes off I seem to forget to lock the door because out of nowhere 3 other coworkers just popped up then and I knew what was going to happen.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Well everything you can call no mercy sex happened lots of oral lots and lots of anal, vaginal rough sex all the way oral sex was basically face fucking, lots of kinky for play hair pulling, slapping all that crazy stuff even DP (double penetration).
I love every minute of it honestly they behaved like animals screaming at me calling all the names in the book they made nasty comments of wedding ring my then husband they would worship my big butt they even wrote something with a marker on it we did for like 6 hours it was a fun experience.
Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? Many.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? At the time it was all so fast but we have fiscal exam randomly for our job and my unit had just had one 3 days ago so I was ok.
What were your REASONS for having this hookup? It just happened.
Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? Yes lots of alcohol and in the session some drugs were smoked .
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We went on with our lives basically they never disrespect me or anything I really had no expectations I knew it was a one time thing they are all still my friends and have been in good in times and bad.
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? My best friend, she said she wished she was there.
Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Yes, when I saw the others I wanted to know what it would be like to be with more than one it was amazing. For my coworker he thanked me for the experience.
Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? No
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? The pure sex the way I was totally pleasuring these guys the power a woman has is something, the worst thing was we did not get a chance to do it again because of work and at the time I really did not want to do it in my home town. I’ve always been and always will be a sexual person I don’t discourage casual sex as long as it is from my part and the person I have no problem meeting a guy and if he attracts me sexually then we are on but I do take measures to protected myself at all times I love my self my body my beauty sex is an act of two people who respect themselves enough to understand the situation. Then sex can be amazing.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
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