What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 23
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? Belgium
Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
What’s your occupation? Gardener
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? A little
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Heteroflexible
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 7
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None
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How long ago did this hookup happen? 2 years ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Single
How would you best classify this hookup? Group sex
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Met a couple on the internet from the same city where I lived. They were older (late 30s-early 40s). The husband was bisexual and wanted a guy to pleasure him and his wife. The wife loved threesomes and was all right with her husband pleasuring/being pleasured by another man. I was considering a while exploring same-sex experiences, and it sounded like a good idea to be with a man and woman together, to be able to still have fun with his wife in case the same-sex thing shouldn’t work out.
They were very friendly, from the very first message between us until last I saw them. Immediately there this positive vibe between us, a sort of trust.
He was tall, which is nice because I’m quite tall too. He took good care of his body: very clean, shaven, muscular man. And a nice dick too! She looked stunning: small posture, short hair, small breasts. She had a nice tattoo on her lower stomach: an absolute turn-on!
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We first chatted a little back-and-forth. They were a little nervous having a guy from the same town come to their home. They wanted to be sure I’d be discrete about our hook-up. A day or two later they invited me to their house and we talked for a short while. About them usually hooking-up with a man roughly the same age, but they were very anxious to try it with a young student. Also about me having no experience with a man before, what I wanted to do/don’t do with him, what I did/didn’t want him to do. Etc. I was open to giving and receiving oral and he wanted me to fuck him, but that was a bit too much for me, so we decided to keep it just oral between the men.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? With the “rules” established, he and I went upstairs to the bedroom while his wife waited downstairs and put on something sexy. He and I started kissing and undressing. When I saw his cock, I couldn’t resist another second and began sucking him. It felt so right having his hard dick in my mouth! A few minutes later his wife came in, absolutely hot in a dark lingerie set. She pulled me up, kissed me and her husband, and took us to the bed. We lied down and they both went down on me: kissing and taking turns sucking my cock. This went on for a while, everyone giving and receiving oral, and making out.
She then lay me on my back, slid my penis inside her and started riding me. Her husband gave me a long kiss and put his dick in my mouth. We switched to doggy style: me fucking her and her husband lying under us, licking and sucking her pussy and my cock. She came, but wanted more. I fucked her further until I came too. Then it was her husband’s turn and me doing the licking and sucking until he came as well and she a second time.
It ended with us making out on the bed, talking about what happened. We got dressed, had a final drink in the living room with some more kissing and I went back home.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I felt and still feel great about it. It opened my world to new ways of having sex and enjoying it. It always stayed with the one time however. We had a wonderful experience, but they wanted someone who could stop by more frequently. I couldn’t ’cause of my studies, so we went our own ways on a positive note. We cross each other frequently in the street, but it stays our beautiful secret.
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Learning new things, experimenting, Thought it was an important experience to have, To feel more confident, It was easy / convenient
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one. It happened between the three of us, so it stays between the three of us.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Exploring my sexuality with a kind and caring couple. To be able to have such a nice experience and have it nuance my perspective on sex.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Nothing at all. It was a great experience and I don’t regret having done this for a second.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Yes, it did. It changed my entire perspective on the topic. Sex can be a very beautiful thing. It there’s always feelings involved, we’re humans after all. You care for and respect one another’s boundaries, and casual sex can be fantastic without being in a serious relationship.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? It’s a nice project! It gives people a chance to learn, see the stories of other people and make choices for themselves. Maybe someone who doubts exploring casual sex reads a (or maybe even my) story and sees it can have a positive effect on a life when done properly. The CSP is a perfect platform to share and read about a subject that’s, sadly, frowned upon.
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