Location: Birmingham, AL
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
Religious affiliation: Agnostic
How religious are you? Not at all
Sexual orientation: Bisexual
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The Nurse & I
How long ago did this hookup happen? A year ago
How would you best classify this hookup? FWB [Friends With Benefits]
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? My partner was a 6’4, white, male with dark brown hair and eyes, and was thin. I met him at the hospital where I work and we clicked sexually. He had a girlfriend, but it wasn’t really a big deal since she frequently went home to D.C. He worked the night shift at the hospital and I worked during the day, so we had pretty interesting sex schedules. I thought he was pretty hot before I had sex with him. He had a nice body.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? The hookup began at his house a few days after Christmas. We did plan it out and we both instigated the hookup. He had just gotten off of work after working a 12 hour shift.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We were very kinky sexually and encouraged each other to express anything we wanted during sex. I gave him oral sex, and we did some mutual masturbation and he fingered me, then we had sex. It was pretty great because he was endowed and the pain was kind of nice. We both orgasmed a few times and then we did some rimming. We were both pretty good at making love with each other. We talked about hooking up again after fucking.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? We did discuss history and shared STI test results. He had condoms but because I’m allergic to latex, we had to use the pull out method. I was on birth control though.
What were your REASONS for having this hookup? I was between relationships and didn’t want another at the time.
Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? No.
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? It was a year ago, and he has since moved away to D.C. for graduate school. I hope he has a great life and is successful. We hooked up multiple times until he moved.
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I talked to my friends about it and they were pretty cool. Some people did want me to bring up having a relationship.
Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? It was consensual on both sides.
Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? Not really because it allowed me to explore a more kinky side.
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? The best thing was our ability to be creative in bed. The worst was that he was attached to another girl at the time, and I don’t think it was really fair.
It hasn’t changed my opinion on anything.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
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