What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 36
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? USA
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Professional
What’s your current relationship status? Dating casually
Religious affiliation: Agnostic
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 20
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
The Wingman’s Husband
How long ago did this hookup happen? 4 years ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Single
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a year
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? J is my friend’s husband. I had only met him briefly once or twice, I thought he was attractive but never really thought of him sexually since he was my friend’s husband. He’s tall and lean. Cute-looking and very funny.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? My friend and I were out on the town. When we go out, the running premise is that we’re out there trying to find me a boyfriend and she’s my wingman. After a full night of drinking (me not her) and chatting up fellas, we made our way back to my friend’s place.
After saying hi to J and hanging out for a bit, the couple went upstairs and left me to sleep on the living room sofa. About 30 minutes later, J came down the stairs.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I figured he was getting something from the kitchen or something, but he sat down near the sofa and started talking to me. We chatted for a bit and then he moved over and was now kneeling on the floor in front of me. Before I could process what was going on, he leaned down and kissed me softly on the lips.
He then pulled away a bit but then kissed me again, this time more forcefully and passionately. It felt fantastic and I kissed back but in the back of my mind I was wondering if my friend knew or even if she sent him down.
I decided to go with it. We were making out and he rubbed my tits a little before placing his hand on my pussy. He was rubbing me from on top of my pajama bottoms. He really knew what he was doing because after only a few minutes I was having a pretty intense orgasm.
He sat up and got between my legs. I kept looking at the stairs to see if my friend was watching or coming down. He pulled my pants down and I was pretty sure he was going to put his cock in me but instead he went down on me. While licking my clit, he fingered me a little. I was enjoying it so much but was still confused by the whole situation. As I felt another orgasm building up, I was afraid I would scream. I grabbed a pillow and covered my mouth as I writhed in ecstasy.
I was dying for him to fuck me now. But he had other plans. He sat up and came over to my face and pulled his cock out. I was lying on my side and I took him in my mouth while he rubbed my pussy again. As I was giving him head, he moved in closer so I started licking and sucking his balls. Then I went back to his cock. He moved in closer again and I worked his balls again. He leaned in more and I guess he wanted me to lick his asshole. I don’t want to say I’m a prude, but this was already the craziest thing I had ever done. So I licked his ass and he really liked that. He was fingering me intensely and I came once again.
I started telling him to come for me and he obliged by coming in my mouth.
We spent a minute or so collecting ourselves and then he gave me a few kisses and said “That was fun. Good-night.”
He went upstairs and I replayed the whole scene in my mind. It was so incredible. I was half expecting my friend to come downstairs laughing, but it didn’t happen. I started wondering if I dreamt the whole thing. I was still a bit drunk after all.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? The next morning my friend and I had coffee and then I left. I didn’t see J. My friend wasn’t acting strange so I assumed she didn’t know anything.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness
How intoxicated were you? A little tipsy/high
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? I don’t know / I’m not sure
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I haven’t and can’t tell anyone!
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Being seduced with the man’s wife upstairs.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Not being sure if it was a set-up or not. I still can’t tell if my friend knows or even consented. I think about it a lot. It’s possible they have a slightly open arrangement because, as my wingman, she’s gotten pretty inappropriate with some guys we would be with.
Shortly after this, my friend and I stopped seeing each other as much. She switched jobs and wasn’t in my neighborhood and we fell a bit out of touch.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Definitely. I’m much more open to the idea of hooking up with a stranger in the right circumstance.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? Even though we didn’t go all the way, J is the best lover I’ve ever had. I really hope our paths cross again and we can continue what he started.
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