Current location: Oregon
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
Relationship status: Engaged
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Somewhat
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 4
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? Two
Third Time Is The Charm
How long ago did this hookup happen? Four Months
How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? Threesome
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I had two partners that night. The first was my fiancée Beth. She’s five six and mixed race, with long brown hair and light brown skin with a curvy, busty figure. She also has a number of tattoos which I like I had worked with her for years at the bank before anything romantic happened between us. I asked her out and we dated, started sleeping together and had our second anniversary in June where I asked her to marry me. Beth is a lady and conservative when she needs to be but is also kinky and quite open sexually. Before Beth I did not believe in things like love and soul mates.
The other girl was Ellie. She has short brown hair and is in her early twenties and is five four. She is petite and has pale skin with a smoky, sultry voice. Beth and I met her online, she responded to our ad. We took an instant liking to her.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? This actually took about seven months from inception to execution. Things between me and Beth were quite good when she asked what I wanted to do with my birthday, this was back about January. As I said she is quite open sexually, for our first birthday together Beth had done a stripper act, complete with body glitter and a pole. We have also role-played and had sex in some pretty public places. Now the subject of a threesome and having another woman join us came up and it was something both Beth and I were open to but it just didn’t come together for my birthday.
Beth and I kept discussing it and decided we wanted to have a threesome. We made a decision that we did not want to ask anyone we know and to put an ad up on craigslist. The ad described who we were and that we were looking for a third to join us in the bedroom.
We didn’t get that many responses and most of them Beth and I rejected outright. Ellie was the third girl we had met with. The first we didn’t like and dismissed her right away. The second was attractive and what we were looking for, and Beth and I made a decision to ask her but she declined in an email.
Our ad was up more than a month when Ellie responded. We emailed back and forth with her for a few days, chatted with her and exchanged pictures including nudes. She agreed to meet us at a restaurant and walked in dressed conservatively but we could tell she had a good body on her. Ellie was early twenties, a little younger than Beth and I were thinking but came across as mature. She told us she had never done anything like this and like us had never been in a threesome but she was open. Beth and I both thought she was attractive and discussed her a bit and sent her an email asking her if she wanted to join us in the bedroom and Ellie agreed.
With work and our lives it took about another week. We promised Ellie a good dinner and some wine and asked in exchange that she dress up. She arrived in flattering little black dress and both Beth and I had also both dressed up. We ate dinner and chatted a bit, we could tell Ellie was quite nervous. I could also tell she wasn’t used to the wine. Beth and I were also a bit nervous but after dinner all three of us moved to the bedroom
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We talked a little more, and Ellie at on the end of the bed. I put my hand on her thigh and then kissed her a little and Beth did the same. Beth helped Ellie out of her dressed and I then undressed Beth and took my own clothes off. I made out with both women and sucked on Ellie’s breasts a little. At one point Ellie was kissing me and Beth was sucking my cock. I penetrated Ellie and pulled out and finished inside Beth.
Beth played with Ellie’s breasts and sucked on them a bit and Ellie did the same with her and I enjoyed watching both women explore each other. I went again, penetrating Beth from behind while Ellie kissed my neck. We all fell sleep after a while. In the morning I made breakfast and served both women, and Ellie kissed us goodbye and since it was a Saturday Beth and I spent a lazy day in bed. We had both quite enjoyed ourselves and Ellie as well.
Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? Beth and I both did, not sure about Ellie since she was so nervous
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? Now we didn’t use condoms, Beth has a major latex allergy. We have to use non-latex condoms or not at all. However we did discuss it, all three of us had recently tested clean and I knew Beth was on birth control and Ellie took a morning after pill and is now taking birth control
What were your REASONS for having this hookup? I wanted to and to enjoy having two women in my bed.
Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? We split a bottle of wine between the three of us, not sure how many glasses each that came to
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Ellie has joined us a few more times in the bedroom, usually once or twice a month since when the mood strikes us. Beth and I taught her about wine, and discussed and helped her pick her first tattoo. Beth and I both like and enjoy Ellie and having her join us when we want her to, usually have to give her a few days warning. I like her and am attracted to her, and find Ellie a fun addition to the bedroom but I don’t love her or have strong feelings towards her. Those are for Beth. Right now we plan on continuing to on occasion have Ellie join us in the bedroom, but Beth and I have left her free to date other people so we will enjoy her while it lasts.
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? We haven’t told anyone, I think it’s part of the reason I wanted to post it here.
Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Yes for all three of us
Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? Nope
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? The best part was good sex with two women, not sure there was a worst part. I learned while a threesome is a pleasant and enjoyable experience but it’s not near as glorious as pictured on TV or in the movies. I did have a few concerns about Beth running off with Ellie, but honestly I feel like our relationship is stronger than ever now and I am looking forward to marrying her in the spring. We agree Ellie is a fun addition to our sex lives and someone we enjoy together.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
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