What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 28
What’s your race/ethnicity? East Asian
What continent do you live on? Asia
What country and/or city do you live in? India
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your current relationship status? Single
How religious are you? A little
What’s your sexual orientation? Gay/lesbian
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? Around 20
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
Third Time Lucky
How long ago did this hookup happen? 2 months ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status
How would you best classify this hookup? Fuck-buddies / Booty call
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than 6 months
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Met him via gay dating app PR, he is average looking guy, not very tall, a little fat
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I had met him twice earlier but I came way too early both times. We planned meeting a few times after that, but I chickened out both time as I shagged after planning the meet and then I didn’t feel like meeting. I had refrained from sex and even masturbation for some days even though I wanted to shag very badly. So one day, I said I will do it, so after work I messaged him if we can meet, he was available but apprehensive about me cumming early and not turning up at all, I assured that none of that would happen, though I was not sure at all. I just wanted the fuck so badly. So I drive to his place and he lets me in. He is all relaxed but I am nervous as always. He guides me to his room, switches off the lights and we are on.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I took off all my clothes except for my underwear, he did the same. Then we start kissing, first slowly, then he starts kissing wildly, putting his tongue deep inside me and going on and on. We kiss, stop, again kiss, this goes on for a few minutes. He tried to climb on top of me but I stop him because that may make me cum. He is cooperative and takes it slow.
He pounced on my neck and nipples which I love, he bites and sucks it with his teeth and it hurts sometimes but it was awesome, I just gasp and let him do it. I just kiss his neck and try to bite him, but I am not even half as good as him.
Now he takes off my and his underpants and starts kissing again, starting to finger my ass. I was very hard and ecstatic, something was finally up my ass after a long time. He then goes down on me and bites area around my asshole. Again, painful but very pleasurable. Then its time for the fuck, he puts on a condom and applies hair oil to my asshole as a lubricant. Then he tries to enter me missionary, but it is painful and I get scared. Then we try doggie but it is painful. He insisted we try some more, but I am scared and even though it’s not hurting much I pretend that it is paining. So he stops and says its ok, gracious as always.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? No, but I was close
Did your partner have an orgasm? No
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I apologized and he says no problem, I dress up and leave. He sends a message to check if I am ok on PR, which I see after a couple of days. I don’t respond but check his profile so that he knows that I have read his message.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, To cheer myself up
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? I don’t know / I’m not sure
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? A little bit
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure
Do you regret this hookup? A little bit
Why do you regret this hookup? I don’t want to be gay. And so I pressure myself by abstaining from sex/masturbation every few weeks, hoping that I will implode one day and it will all be over. So every hookup makes me sad that I released some pressure and that it might take weeks or months to get to the amount of pressure I was under before this hookup.
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? He was a very hot fucker, used histonguee, teeth well. I felt like he was fucking my mouth with his tongue. The lovebites!
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Though I did not cancel or cum early, I did not let him fuck me out of fear. If I had let him, that would have been the best fuck of my life.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? No.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? Gays frequently have sex casually as its easy. And as its consensual, there’s nothing bad about it. It has given me a few hot encounters, made me a little adventurous and bold. For our society, casual sex is a sin and gay sex means jail. Attitudes towards casual sex are changing but very slowly. The current generation is much more open about it. But this should happen faster.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? It is a very good project to share experiences of common people. I shag many times to the stories posted by people here.
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