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What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 20s
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? SoCal
Highest education received: High school diploma
What’s your occupation? Actor
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Agnostic
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly gay/lesbian
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Prfer women sexually, exclusively lesbian romantically
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 50+
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? Several

Threesome FFF

How long ago did this hookup happen? Two weeks ago

What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status

How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than 6 months

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I had slept with A a few times since breaking up badly with a girlfriend I cared about a lot. Typical LA wannabe. Slender, cute, my age. Much older boyfriend. Authentic bi. She has a friend, B, a little younger, also a wannabe. Cute too…cuter, actually, very fuckable looks. I went off the rails after the breakup with the GF and was drinking too much. (Still am, btw.) A, B and I went out a couple of times and partied mindlessly.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? Went to A’ apartment. I wanted to have sex with her. B texted when I was there and A suggested she come over and party. I was irritated. Was well into it with A on her couch when B showed up. A and I stopped and we drank various cocktails and were all fucked up. A told B I wanted to fuck her. I did, but said I didn’t. B pretended to pout and slid next to me and we started making out on the couch. B was getting into it — I was surprised.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We made out on the sofa while A watched and then A and B made out while I watched. Drunk or not, I wanted them both at this stage especially B. I pushed A away and went at it harder with B, stripped her top off, pushed her down, took her bra off and sucked her boobs. Her hands were all over me. A took my hair — it hurt — and said let’s all go to bed. And we did. I ended up going down on B and she came. They both went down on me; I didn’t come, a drag because usually I orgasm easily. A stroked herself to a climax. Clothes were strewn around.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? A little

Did you have an orgasm? No, but I was close

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? A and I were drunk enough to fall asleep. B had taken something and she was wired. She turned on the TV but I didn’t hear it…I was out. When I woke up it was on and I turned it off. The truth is, I don’t like A or B, haven’t seen A since, it was all in all a stupid experience. Not my first threesome with other chicks but like the others it was a bore.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Intoxication, I was feeling lonely

How intoxicated were you? Completely wasted

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? Completely wasted

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? A little bit

Why do you regret this hookup? I fucked a girl I have nothing in common with who is fairly shitty at sex. I fucked her very attractive friend who was dumb as a rock. What am I doing.

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? B has nice breasts with big nipples and made horny sounds when I sucked on her.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? I didn’t orgasm.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Reinforced the fact that sex with people you don’t care about may turn out to be a shitty experience. Not that that will affect my future behavior. Obviously I will fuck anything that gets me wet no matter how ultimately boring or stupid.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Not at all positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Fairly negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? Depressing.

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? Casual sex in my life has gone from wonderful to a sick addiction.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Therapy.

You have a hookup story to share? Submit it here!

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