by Misguided
Gender: Female

Age: 19
Race/ethnicity: Caucasian
Location: England
Highest education received: Some college (not currently in college)
Occupation: Business administrator
Sexual orientation: Mostly heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexual orientation/sexuality better/best? Open minded
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

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How long ago did this hookup happen? 1 and a half years

How would you best classify this hookup? One night stand

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? My partners were a young married couple with a child. They were ‘swingers’ and I was a ‘visitor.’ I met them on a swinging website that I used for sex for about a year meeting various different men. He was tall, thin, fairly attractive and well endowed. He was bisexual. She was pretty, short and on the large side. I was originally supposed to have gone to see them with another bisexual man who I had sexual encounters with but I choked at the last minute. I was chatting to them online for about 2 weeks before the meet up.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? One afternoon after giving the hook up a lot of thought I made a snap decision and asked if they were free… They were! They initially contacted me but I made the final decision. I drove for about an hour to get to their house.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Most things involved a lot of oral, and I used my fingers in his anus which he loved whilst he was performing oral on her. I performed oral on her and she did on me. They both did. I was penetrated and we used condoms much to his dismay! I didn’t orgasm and I don’t think she did either but the man did. I stopped half-way through as the child woke up. I then insisted I had a smoke and he joined me. We talked about swinging and sex mostly. I made the first moves sexually, suggesting they show me their bedroom. I kind of enjoyed it but at the same time didn’t.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? We used condoms, although he didn’t want too. Nothing was discussed apart from the fact that I wasn’t on birth control.

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? Exploring my sexuality is something I wanted to do before I die.

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? I had one beer. I don’t like having casual sex whilst drunk. It makes me feel like the decision was not my own.

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? She was awkward and said she was tired. I got the idea she didn’t like me. He, however, was keen for me to come again so it could be just him and I. She was of course okay with this because the nature of their relationship allowed this. I spoke to him a few times mainly about his failing relationship. He wanted to meet me again and I didn’t. I never saw either of them again.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I told nobody about this! My friends aren’t as liberal as I am and felt as though I would have been judged.

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Yes it was consensual and it was a experience I wanted.

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? I have thought about this a lot over the last year and I don’t regret it whilst I probably would not do it again or have a threesome with someone I loved and a ‘visitor’.

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? I think the best thing was the experience I had. The worst thing was the girl and her attitude towards me once it was over. To be honest, it was one that I would not normally expect a woman to have (more a man’s trait).

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

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