What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 25
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Australia
What country and/or city do you live in? Brisbane
Highest education received: Some college (not currently in college)
What’s your occupation? Hospitality
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Easy after a few drinks
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? Between 50 to 80. I stopped counting at 18 which was 43 men/boys
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
The Time I Cheated on My BF With 4 guys After/During a Work Party, Then Came Home and Made Love to BF
How long ago did this hookup happen? 2 weeks ago
What was your relationship status at the time? In a relationship (monogamous)
How would you best classify this hookup? Group sex
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? The first guy was R., he is a coworker, hooked up with him a few times before mostly vaginal with condoms. B. was R.’s friend and first time meeting him. P. and O. are both R.’s housemates, who I had met before but never slept with. And my loving faithful BF A.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I started it off with an affair I had been having with my coworker R. at my work party after my BF A. left to go home. Ended up getting tag teamed by R. his friend B. and R.’s two roommates Peter and Oscar, no condoms used. Made love to BF A. morning after unprotected then took the morning after pill.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? At a work Xmas party, I had a couple of drinks my Bf went home as he had to work at his job the next day. I continued drinking and partying with R. a coworker I had previously cheated on my BF A. with. We started kissing and touching each other till he said we should go to his place, we walked back to his apartment on the way he called his friend B., we met B. in a park close to R.’s apartment. Robin fucked me on a park bench while B. using my iPhone recorded R. fucking my pussy without a condom, R. then shot his load inside me, we got up and as I was wearing a dress put my panties in my bag and walked with B. and R. to his apartment. From then on from roughly 11 pm till 5 am I got tag teamed by R., B. and both R.’s roommates Peter and Oscar. R. and B. both had unprotected sex in my vagina and shot their semen into me multiple times, P. and O. both fucked me bare but came in my mouth. By 5 am I ordered a taxi to take me home to my bf A., I made love to him and let him have me without a condom letting him shoot his cum deep inside my unknown to him, used pussy. It was so hot that he went down on me straight away commenting on how wet and swollen my pussy lips and clit looked and how I tasted different with his cum in me. Little did my loving BF know that I just let 4 guys fuck me without condoms and let 2 of the guys cum in my vagina and fill me up. After we hooked up I had a shower then went to the chemist to get the morning after pill.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I felt good and very turned on by the fact that I had come home and made love to my BF Alex, after cheating on him and then letting him go down on me after having unprotected sex with 4 other guys. I’m now on the pill so no need to worry about unplanned pregnancy. Avoiding getting pregnant was a relief as it probably not my BF’s, also contracting an STI which luckily I didn’t.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Plan B / Emergency contraception
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, Power / Dominance
How intoxicated were you? A little tipsy/high
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? My doctor, told me to go on the pill to prevent future unwanted pregnancy. My BFF she thought it was hot and welcome me into a threesome with her and her BF.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Neutral
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? I had been asking my BF Alex to have me without a condom, as I never done it without one before, he refused to as I may get pregnant. I had been cheating on him with a co-worker and decided I’d let him be my first. So the best thing about this hookup, I got to experience my 1st sex without condoms and had my 1st four guy tag team every and loved it all.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Possibly getting pregnant and passing over a STI to my faithful and loving boyfriend Alex who is always careful.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Yes I am still having unprotected sex to this day with R., his penis is a lot thicker than Alex’s, and is circumcised which Alex is not. My BF still insists on using condoms even though I’m on the pill now.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Somewhat negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? On one side I let R. take me unprotected and let him do whatever he wants to me, we are just fuck-buddies. With Alex I can settle down with and have a future. So now I have best of both worlds.
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I think everyone should shed off their guilt and apprehension and experience it once in their life.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Awesome
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