Current location: Minnesota
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
Occupation: Property Manager
Relationship status: Married
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
Sexual orientation: Mostly heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 15
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 1
How long ago did this hookup happen? 1
How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? One-night stand
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She was black, 28 years, an inch taller than me, a larger than my thinner wife. We met on Tinder, where she began initiating conversation. We met about an hour after at a bar where her friends were at drinking. We chatted and had a few more drinks. I enjoyed the conversation as she was interested in current events and politics. She thought I was hot and wanted to bring me home – even if I was with someone else. Her friends didn’t seem to care much for me and refused to chat, as they were chasing other men at the bar.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We took a taxi to her friends place and ordered pizza. After her friend went to sleep, we stayed out in the living room. She instigated things right away.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We began making out, and she went straight to grabbing the parts of my body she wanted. It wasn’t long after that we were completely naked on her friend’s couch. We 69ed for a while, then she demanded that I get inside her. We fucked missionary at first and she came. Then we did it doggie style, then sideways. Our fucking was interspersed with her chatting about how much she liked being fucked and towards then end she said she wanted to feel my cum inside her. This was the first time I met a woman who explicitly stated that she wanted me to cum in her, rather than use a condom. I did eventually and she enjoyed it.
We chatted a bit after this. We went at it again. Then went to sleep. When we woke up in the morning, her friend was still asleep, so we screwed one last time before I left. She said she had missed fucking, so I’m glad it helped us both out.
Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? We both did.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? We talked about STIs and it was a non-issue. I had only been with my wife in the last year and she had been tested recently. She didn’t care about the pregnancy risk, although I was a bit concerned.
What were your REASONS for having this hookup? I wanted to hookup with someone other than my wife.
Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? Several beers.
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Before I left in the morning, she gave me her number. We texted a few times after that, but I never had any intentions of meeting up again – unless she arranged things. I was fine with it.
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I told some of my friends. They thought I was crazy to cheat on my hot wife.
Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? It was consensual for both of us.
Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? No, not at all.
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? The best thing was experiencing another woman – and how she wanted me so badly. This wasn’t my first casual sex experience, so it was just another fun tim.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative
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