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What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 30
What’s your race/ethnicity? Southeast Asian
What continent do you live on? Asia
What country and/or city do you live in? Indonesia
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your occupation? Banker
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation:
How religious are you? A little
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 1
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

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How long ago did this hookup happen? 4 months ago

What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status

How would you best classify this hookup? Fuck-buddies / Booty call

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than 6 months

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? he’s a little chubby, 5′ 6″/7″, great smile, nice smell, clean, nice long fingers

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? not long after chatted he said it openly want to hook up before he marry next year. he has a girlfriend and did kind of hook up several time he said. We are Asian, so we are not open about our sex life and activities.  I’m a virgin and curious as hell about sexual intercourse. nver really had serious relationship. never said it to him, just said I lack experience. We are living in different cities, and agree to do it when we visit each other. i did research about him, before agree to do it with him.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We met at the hotel and talked a little bit before it happened. and then he said “come on” and kissed me hard, then he touched my breast while french kissing me (I was very nervous, lots of things in my head). We did it with minimal light since I’m not confident about my body. I am a fat girl, always have been. He didn’t mind, just wanted me to relax and comfortable. He unhooked my bra, he kissed my breast, play with my tits. and everything went so fast, and I was too nervous, both of us finally naked, and he spread my legs, and he tried several times but couldn’t enter my pussy, since I’m wasn’t ready yet, he asked me to cuddle first and enjoy yourself.

He kept tangling his feet around mine, while we chatted random topics. I don’t know how, but the tangling feet really made me wet, his finger rubbed my thigh and my vagina, checked it and said ‘you are so wet’ and lead my hand to touch his, he’s so hard. We kissed again, and then he asked me to suck his dick, I never knew that I love to suck dicks. He kept moaning and then he asked me to be on top, it’s easier to enter. It’s so good (I’m a virgin by man, but have several experiences with myself). I keep moving my hips, he moaned, I moaned, we kissed. then I said, ‘ let me know when you are about to cum’ he replied; ‘don’t we want to make a baby?’ Normal people would be frightened and angry but I found it really hot; I guess I’m a freak. not long after he pulled out and came. he didn’t want to do it with a condom, he’s allergic. I wasn’t there yet, but then he cleaned himself, then he went down on me. it’s not really good, then we chatted and cuddled. in the morning we did it again, I still not come yet, just almost. He got his second orgasm.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? No, but I was close

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? at first, i felt like just sober from alchohol, and thought that i just did crazy things. but then I feel good about doing it. I don’t expect anything from him just another hookup would be good.

Even now, we still contact each other some times. I don’t care about his fiancee. It’s only physical btw. never knew i love sex before

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Withdrawal, Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, Thought it was an important experience to have, To feel better about myself, To feel more desirable, To feel more confident, To cheer myself up, I was feeling lonely, Making new friends, Boredom

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? A little bit

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? experience and intimacy

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? I didn’t get an orgasm

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? yeah, in a good way

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? i will do it again. i enjoy casual sex than real relationship

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? a good portal to share other people’s view and experience

You have a hookup story to share? Submit it here!

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