What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 20
What’s your race/ethnicity? Black
What’s your current relationship status? Single
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 18
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
Tinder Meet Up
How long ago did this hookup happen? 6 months ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Single
How would you best classify this hookup? Fuck-buddies / Booty call
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a week
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I was curious as to what the hype was about Tinder and plus I was very horny and needed to find some good dick. So I created an account and had a bit of fun, clearly looking for a hookup.
A few weeks go by and I’ve met with a few folks off of Tinder and had sexcapades with. But this guy stood out to me when he sent me a message after we had matched on the website.
I didn’t really think much of it. He was nice and approached me in a gentle way but I wasn’t interested at the time because I thought he was ugly and didn’t think he was worthy of my vagina.
He continued to message me constantly and gave me his number which I did take and texted him.
He was asking to meet up with me but I made up fake excuses as to why I couldn’t meet up with him.
But one night I was high out of mind and finally agreed to meet him. Something was telling me to just meet him and hear his voice.
He came and picked me up and I kid you not when I hopped inside his car, saw him for the first time in person and heard his deep sexy voice, it was a wrap. There was a tsunami in my crotch and flooding my panties.
He looked better than I thought he did. I knew I had to fuck him that night although our conversations were never about sex but I wanted to feel him inside of me.
He was tall and had a lighter skin tone then I did. The sexist cleanest beard I’ve ever seen on a guy and smelled super good. I thought he was sexy.
I hadn’t planned on actually leaving my premises so I didn’t have any shoes on which we laughed about and he knew I was high and joked about not sharing my weed with him.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? He took me back to his place and showed me around. His place was beautiful and very creative; I knew he had an artistic vibe about him because everything he showed me he had created himself. It was nice.
He showed me every room including his studio where he had artists come and record.
I got comfortable and listened to his music. I knew he liked music and was a producer and was very talented. He played the piano and shit. He was very talented guy. It turned me on even more.
We watched Netflix and just chilled. I was sleepy but he didn’t want me to go to sleep; he was super funny and playful and kept me laughing the entire night.
Finally, somehow we ended up falling asleep and I was just so horny I was about to explode if I didn’t have his dick inside of me.
We spooned and I pushed my booty against him and he took the bait.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? He quickly went and put some slow sultry music and we started to kiss heavily and hungrily. He undressed me and I undressed him. He feasted on my pussy like it was the last supper and I sucked his juicy thick dick like my ex was watching.
He slid on a condom and entered me pumping slowly and then fast. Then he immediately flipped me over so I was on all fours and fucked me from behind.
He penetrated me deeply and dug me out with each stroke. I was literally screaming because it felt so good.
His throbbing tip was pounding into my g-spot and I was about to lose my mind.
But it all ended too soon for me. He came and it was over.
It was less than 3 minutes and I was deeply disappointed but didn’t make a big deal out of it.
He sucked and played with my nipples for a while and I tried to get him pumped up for another round but he told me he was tired.
I didn’t push the issue and we just fell asleep.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Somewhat
Did you have an orgasm? No, not even close
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I had to be at work the very next morning and we hadn’t been sleep for more than 2 hours.
I was in pain. My stomach was killing me and my legs were aching. But I was nonetheless somewhat satisfied with the experiment; I was just irritated about how quick he had been last night.
We’ve hooked up a handful since and he’s still a minute man and it’s frustrating. But I like his company and being around him. If I hadn’t fucked him on the first night I think I would actually date him but there’s still that little light of hope we could actually start a relationship since we’ve both hinted at it but time will tell. I see us having a future but only the greatest power knows.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it
How intoxicated were you? Drunk/high but not wasted
What substances did you consume? Marijuana, hashish
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I never told anyone about these hookups.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? He actually takes him time and makes sure I’m ready before he enters me. He kisses every inch of me, caresses my body and eats my pussy pretty good. Plus, he’s aggressive that’s always a good thing.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Him coming too quick for me.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? No
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I think casual sex is the norm now a days. But there is still that double standard that hangs in the air about men being able to fuck as many women as they please but us women aren’t allowed to do so.
People need to learn not all women are going to be saints and that we enjoy sexual pleasure as much as they do. It’s nothing to be ashamed of. It’s awful that women are bashed and called sluts for liking to get dicked down on the regular. Men aren called sluts.
No one should make a person feel bad for the choices they make in life. I’ll fuck whoever I want when I want. That doesn’t make me any less of a person and lower my values.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? It’s a cool idea and I think it’ll help women and men understand that it’s okay to just want casual sex.
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