by Aja Mathis

Gender: Female
Age: 28
Race/ethnicity: Black
Location: North Hollywood, CA
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
Occupation: Assistant
Relationship status: Single
Religious affiliation: Catholic
How religious are you? A little
Sexual orientation: Mostly heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexual orientation/sexuality better/best? Women are fun but I’m strictly dickly at the end of the day
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? I stopped counting years ago.
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 1

Too Deepthroat

How long ago did this hookup happen? About 5 years ago

How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? Short fling

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? A seemingly attractive Spanish guy I met online. He didn’t appear to be the person he was in the photos he sent but I went with it.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? He usually started things. I was so immature back then. I feel like things would have been done differently if I were the person I am today. 

I used to deal with this guy that had a thing for being puked on. Of course I didn’t know this right away but I soon figured it out.
The sex was pretty ordinary and average. Like any man, he loved to have his dick sucked with pride and joy, and that wasn’t a difficult task for me. But he’d get so excited it was crazy. He moaned and groaned like a bitch and would grab my face with both hands and stare into my eyes while I sucked. One time I pushed him down my throat and gagged and he giggled and asked me to do it again, so I did. I did it over and and over and noticed he was starting to thrust. The thrusting didn’t bother me until he was going to hard and I stopped. He apologized, we fucked, and I went home. He texted me later asking how I felt about a lot of spit on his dick and asked if he could fuck my face. I’ve never heard someone speak so passionately about getting head. He said my mouth was perfect and the wetter I can make his dick the better. At the time, I didn’t really see a problem with this. I’m like, ok, so he just wants to be soaked in spit and fuck my face, no biggie.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? The next time we got together he was so antsy. He was shaking and rushing to get all his clothes off and his dick in my mouth. I stripped to my panties, got on my knees and got to work. Just after a few minutes he stood up and grabbed my face with both hands and stroked my mouth slowly. He began moaning so loud I couldn’t believe it. He might as well had been screaming for help. More spit, more spit. I pressed the head of his dick against my thoat and accumulated all the spit I could. He asked for more and I kept choking and gagging. It was dripping down my chin to my chest and covered his balls but I guess it wasn’t enough. The moans turned into screams and then shit got weird. He squatted down and grabbed the back of my head and fucked the shit out of my throat. I mean, fucking my throat like the bottom of some pussy, I was getting scared. My previous meal was beginning to come up and he went even harder. His grip tightened on my head and he screamed mooooore give it to me more more……I tried to pull away but he wouldn’t let me go. Just before I could push myself off of him I puked. I threw up right on him. He actually squatted down further to “catch” the vomit on his crotch. I sat there trying to catch my breath and figure out what the fuck happened. Was that my fault? Did he…..I just sat there, staring at the bedspread. I hadn’t even realized he went to the bathroom and came back with a towel to clean me off. He was grinning and pushing out sighs of relief and satisfaction. This psycho did it on purpose. He wanted me to throw up on him. I wiped the vomit off my face and chest, put my clothes on, cussed him smooth the fuck out and left. 

He texted and called and emailed me for months saying it’s only weird if I don’t keep doing it and I’ll like it if I do it one more time, etc etc…..He eventually got the hint and stopped hitting me. I just wasn’t into that white nonsense. So you’re just gonna skull fuck me until I throw up on you???? No. Just no.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? We used a condom each time we fucked.

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? I was somewhat attracted to him and his aggression.

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? Nope.

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I never spoke to him again after things got weird.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I blogged about it. A lot of omg’s……

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Yes. It wasn’t what I wanted to happen ever ever ever ever ever again though.

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? Yes. It was fucking awkward.

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? I think I just got involved with someone that was really into some kinky shit. We weren’t on the same page.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Not at all positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Very negative

You wanna read more about Aja’s sexploits (and more)? Check out Good Bitch, Bad Bitch, or Aja’s blog Chokes N Gags.

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