by Crazy Canuck
What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 47
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? California
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your occupation? Legal field
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 15
Trailer Park Trash III
How long ago did this hookup happen? Four months ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status
How would you best classify this hookup? Fuck-buddies / Booty call
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a month
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I had written about D in my previous two stories (Trailer Park Trash 1 & 2). When I first arranged to meet her, I didn’t know her name, but later discovered what it was. She’s a 47-yr old Caucasian who is a manager at a trailer park. She’s about 5’6″, 150 lbs, with light brown greeting hair. She’s popped a couple of kids, so she’s what I would classify as average for someone at that stage of life and in that socioeconomic circle. But a nice person to talk with, albeit very simple for someone in my circle.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? The first time we hooked up I went to her city (just over an hour away) and rented a nice hotel room. The following week she came and spent the weekend at my place, but was having her period, which we fucked through. Since following weekend was going to be the last weekend I was in town before going to see my family for Christmas, I decided to invite her again. I invited her mid-week over text and she said that her period was talking longer than normal to finish because she was still bleeding. And, of course, she lived up to the stereotypical trailer park resident by claiming she had no gas and no money for gas. I told her to come for the weekend anyways. I told her I’d give her $20 for the gas. Fuck – not only am I putting her up for the weekend, I’m now paying for her gas.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? D came over and we spent the weekend watching football, hockey, and fucking. We broke out the edibles and liquor and had a good time. She was still bleeding, but not very much. We had sex four times, and by the time the fourth came around, it felt like such a chore. I think that’s a good sign this relationship is coming to an end.
At around 4 pm Sunday, I had pretty much had enough of her and was dying for her to get the fuck out. I start packing her things and she surprisingly catches on and starts packing her own shit. Before she leaves, she (of course) asks for the $20 in gas money.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Somewhat
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Two days later two red bumps appeared in my public area. They looked like simple ingrown hair pimples, but both curiously had a white puss dot on top. I popped the puss bubble and kept the region clean. Two days after that, two more identical pimples appears in the same general region. Now I’m starting to freak because I’m leaving to see my wife in two days (Saturday) and would be expected to have sex with her. I certainly didn’t want to give her an STI.
I feverishly text her to ask if she got any STIs, and she claimed she had tested clean – In April! Since then she’s banged at least one ruffian she picked up online bareback, and who knows what else. She agrees to go get tested immediately, but given we’re so close to Christmas, it turns out we have to wait ten days for the results. Fuck.
Turns out my wife was having problems with her vagina so that was a convenient excuse not to have sex with her. While in my hometown, I went to a doctor and he said that it didn’t appear to be an STI. That was reassuring, but he was just a GP at an open clinic and was extremely young. I still had some doubts giving the timing of the pimples with my visit with D.
When D did text me with her results, it turns out she had Chlamydia, which explains her bleeding the previous weekend. When I returned to my city in California, I went to get tested.
I tested clean. I dodged a bullet there and learned a lesson – don’t bareback women of questionable backgrounds.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Sterilization
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness
How intoxicated were you? A little tipsy/high
What substances did you consume? Alcohol, Marijuana, hashish
How intoxicated was your partner? A little tipsy/high
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol, Marijuana, hashish
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? A little bit
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? My friend Jen who we talk often about our sex lives. She’s always telling me to wrap it when sleeping around, which I have avoided doing because I typically only sleep with women who run in the same socio-economic circles. That’s gonna change now as I’m going to always wrap it when banging women of questionable backgrounds. More likely, I’ll just stay the fuck away from them.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Neutral
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? A little bit
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? A little bit
Why do you regret this hookup? The STI scare was surreal. You think it only happens to the “other people”, but the wrong partner can nail you.
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? I nutted four times.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? The STI scare. The timing (over the Xmas break and me going to see my wife after a long absence) really compounded the anxiety.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Wrap it up, folks. No point in taking chances because STI can go undetected, so your partner may not even be aware that she is positive for an STI.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Great idea.
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