What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 25
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? USA
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your occupation? Technical Field
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 30
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 4
The Most Turned On I’ve Ever Been
How long ago did this hookup happen? 5 Years Ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Single
How would you best classify this hookup? Short fling
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a month
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She was a slim and a short Native American woman with blue eyes and long dirty blonde hair. Her breasts were large for her size and she liked to show them off. I thought every part of her body was attractive, but at the time she was in a long term relationship so I never thought anything of it. She had been coming over to hang out with my neighbours and so we chatted quite a bit. She was unhappy in her relationship and we would all talk about it when she’d come over in small parts of the conversation. I could tell she was attracted to me but I didn’t think much of it and kept my distance out of respect. I thought she was a cool person but wasn’t sure about her overall based on some of the talking points from her relationship.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? One night she was over at one of our parties and we were all drinking. It was the normal party scene for a while but later into the night we ended up chatting by ourselves to the side of the party. We were laughing about something and I wanted to show her something online. I asked her if she wanted to check it out and I brought her up to my room.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? At the time I wasn’t planning to make a move but once we got up to my room I closed the door as to not wake my roommates and she turned to me and started kissing me. I was initially surprised but given that I was drinking I quickly went with it and started rubbing all over each other’s bodies. I pulled her over to the bed and sat down, pulling her on my lap as she started straddling me while continuing to make out. At this point I was unbelievably turned on and I pulled up her skirt to grab her ass and realized she wasn’t wearing any panties. At this point I rolled over on top of her and started stripping her and my clothes off, sucking on her neck and tits as aggressively as I ever have.
Something about it happening so suddenly and knowing she had a boyfriend turned me on so much. I rubbed my bare cock against her pussy and made out with her until she couldn’t stand it anymore and grabbed my cock to angle it into her. We started off slow fucking but it didn’t take long before I was pounding her as hard as I could, watching her tits bounce furiously and somewhat not believing what was happening then.
We fucked for a good 20 minutes, changing positions up a few times and sweating/licking all over each other. At that point in my life I never felt like I was so sexually connected with someone, and apparently she felt the same way. We ended back up in missionary position, fucking and making out at the same time off and on, and finally she looks at me and tells me she wants me to ‘shoot my seed into her.’ Knowing she wasn’t on birth control I got incredibly turned on by this and sunk my cock into her as deep as possible and had the most intense orgasm of my life.
This drove her to new heights of being turned on I’ve never seen before and when I rolled off of her she immediately mounted me and started fucking me as hard as she could. She told me we’d just use plan B if I wanted but tonight she wanted me to ‘try as hard as I can to get her pregnant.’ Even until now I never had a girl tell me this and it turned me on more than I’ve ever been turned on in my entire life.
We continued fucking for hours, constantly cumming inside of her pussy and taking small breaks to rest enough for the next round. By the end of the night my dick hurt, but I had to get the last bit of nut into her before we finally fell asleep. I had the worst feeling when I woke up, thinking how dumb I was and hoping she was going to take plan B the next day and not just skip it and try to trap me. When she woke up she started making out with me and I filled her up a couple more times before she left.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Right before she left she told me she had a secret to tell me and I got super nervous. She told me she had an IUD and was just messing with me the night before, but since I didn’t question it she just went with it the whole time. She said when I came inside her the first time she had never been so turned on in her life and I couldn’t agree more. We decided to keep it a secret, made up excuses why we left the party and continued meeting up. Every time we’d meet up it was constant dirty talk about fucking without a condom and getting her pregnant. It also didn’t hurt that most of the time she’d come over to fuck she’d be mad at her boyfriend, so she’d fuck with a vengeance and, at least she’d tell me, she’d get revenge on him by fucking him after I filled her up with cum.
A couple years later she got her IUD out and we finally fulfilled our fantasy after not hooking up for a long time, which was the second best fuck I’ve ever had after this one. It’s a story for another time, but after that I never talked to her again and I still wonder what became of her, and if she actually took the plan B or not.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None, IUD (Intrauterine device)
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Intoxication, Revenge / Getting even
How intoxicated were you? Drunk/high but not wasted
What substances did you consume? Alcohol, Marijuana, hashish
How intoxicated was your partner? Drunk/high but not wasted
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol, Marijuana, hashish
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? It’s always been a secret.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Super risky sex, both not knowing if she had STDs and thinking she wasn’t on birth control at the time. Also feeling like I was knocking her up and that she wanted it so bad was awesome and super scary at the same time. I’m not one to just throw caution to the wind but this time I did, and it turned out pretty amazing.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Not knowing if she really would get pregnant was scary, even though it was an incredible turn on to fuck her like I was trying to knock her up. Also I had no idea if she had any STDs and freaked out a little about it, but at the end of the first night I knew the deed was done so kept fucking her with no condom anyway.
Even though her boyfriend was a douche I still feel a little bad about it, because he had no idea she was so vindictive towards him and cheated on him a lot. I didn’t mind because I liked fucking her pussy with my bare cock, but later on it made me feel kind of dirty. Still, he made some very poor choices and so did she, so if it wasn’t me it would have been with someone else.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Sort of. I now ask if my girlfriend/hookup is on birth control the first time we have sex every time. Don’t want to risk getting someone pregnant I’m not intending to spend the rest of my life with. I also know that I’m a straight up animal and can’t control myself when it comes to certain things, and now that I recognize that I can control it better.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Somewhat positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? This is probably the only girl that, if I ever cross paths with again, I’ll do it just like we did the first time.
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? It’s okay, but I value a relationship more than casual sex.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Pretty awesome!
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