by Elodie


Gender: Female
Age: 27
Race/ethnicity: White
Current location: UK
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
Occupation: Charity Worker
Relationship status: Seeing Someone.
Religious affiliation: None
How religious are you? Not at all
Sexual orientation: Mostly heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexual orientation/sexuality better/best? Thought about polyamory.
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 21
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0


Unexpected Fisting Attempt


How long ago did this hookup happen? 6 months ago.

How would you best classify this hookup? Short fling

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? He was in an open marriage I had met him online and we had had a few dates on which he looked after me very well. I knew he had BDSM experience which I never had but was curious. I trusted him as he had been nothing but honest and kind to me since we met. He had an intense and dominating personality which made me feel mildly on edge but sexually excited. He would often leave silences in conversation in which he would stare at me, I would try not to fidget while I could feel myself getting wet.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We had had sex once before. I think I had probably invited him over for dinner and then we had gone up to my bedroom.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I can’t remember but I’d imagine we were kissing, he held me down pushed his hand roughly in my pants to feel my wetness. I have never been the most confident naked but I could feel how turned on he was by my matching underwear set and my body so I felt quite empowered. He was fully clothed as he pushed me roughly over his knee and held me there. He dragged off my pants. I squirmed and he held me down roughly. As he was sitting on the edge of my bed my head and feet were nearly touching the floor and the blood was rushing to my head. I had no idea what he would do next and the anticipation was unsettling but really turning me on. He rubbed my clit and put a finger inside me. He pushed two fingers then three inside me, each time I tried to get up he pushed me down or yanked my hair. Every time I whimpered or moaned he told me quietly I was being a good girl which made me wetter. He didn’t use lube as I had so much natural fluid. He started to push 4 fingers inside me. I was writhing around pushing my arse up in the air as he pushed one and then two fingers into my ass as well. I felt quite shocked at the time as noone had ever tried to do that to me and I would never have dared ask for that kind of thing even if I wanted it (which I hadn’t thought I did!). Though the feeling was really incredible. It just felt really overwhelming. Usually I have to constantly prevent my mind from wandering when I have sex, but the feeling was so intense all I was thinking about was where his fingers were and what he might do next to me and how turned on I was. I couldn’t stay still for a second. At one point he almost had all four fingers inside me and I had to reach back to touch and see. It was really tight and kind of painful but pleasurable at the same time. his went on for probably about 45 minutes and then I couldn’t take any more so we stopped. I felt really turned on but he insisted we go to the shop which made me irritable(!).

Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? No neither of us did at that time.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? We didn’t need to. He had clean hands…!

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? Sexual exploration, boredom, lack of finding a more long term partner.

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? No.

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I was shocked that I liked such an experience so much. We dated for a little longer.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Noone yet.

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Yes very.

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? No.

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? It changed the way I viewed sex as he perceived it to not have a defined end point e.g. intercourse or orgasm. It changed how I felt about the idea of fisting as I would previously have said I never wanted it. He made me realise I would probably like to explore a lot more role play and bdsm.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

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