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What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 34
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Africa
What country and/or city do you live in? Johannesburg
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 30
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 1

Unexpected Ginger Blowjob

How long ago did this hookup happen? 9 months ago

What was your relationship status at the time? Dating casually

How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand

How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? We met on a dating app about a week before and the conversation flowed naturally. She was 22, tall and athletic with pale skin and long natural red hair. I found her pictures extremely attractive. On top of her model good looks, she was an engineering student and very smart

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We arranged a dinner date at a restaurant/bar near her place. The conversation was a bit slow as she was clearly very shy and almost submissive. After we finished our meals we went inside as it was warmer and we could sit together on a couch in the corner.

I was testing her comfort level the whole time with small gestures like stroking her legs. She told me she liked the attention but she was feeling very self-conscious and shy so we agreed I would hold back. After that we the most we did was hold hands

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We paid up and I walked her to her car where we kissed for a minute but I could tell she was still nervous but we both enjoyed it. She then offered to drive me to my car at the opposite end of the parking lot. We get into my car parked in a dark corner and suddenly her demeanor changes. She is kissing back hard and she lets my hands explore her hard athletic body. At this stage, I was happy with a goodnight kiss and I’m not expecting this from her at all given her shy, innocent act.

The next thing she has my jeans unzipped and my very hard cock in her mouth. I’m not expecting this at all but I lie back on the backseat stroking her long hair as she takes me deeper and deeper in her mouth. I don’t often orgasm from oral and I’m also a bit bigger than average so it’s usually limited to foreplay for me. My supposed sky date is sucking on me like crazy and all I can do is warn her of my building orgasm as literally I’m paralyzed with pleasure.

After about 5 minutes, I’m warning her and moaning her name in pleasure. My balls literally explode and she deep throats me like a champion and swallows every drop. I honestly couldn’t move after orgasming so hard. We kissed each other good night and loved the way I could taste my cum in her mouth.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one

Did your partner have an orgasm? No

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We chatted about it and we both agreed it was really unexpected and very intense for both of us. I felt bad I didn’t return the favor as it was getting late

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it

How intoxicated were you? A little tipsy/high

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? A little tipsy/high

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I mentioned it to my friends but left out most details

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? It was so unexpected

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? I didn’t get to return the pleasure

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? I was amazing guilt free fun for both of us

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? an excellent resource for mostly positive sexual experiences

You have a hookup story to share? Submit it here!

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