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What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 24
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? Amsterdam
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (currently pursuing)
What’s your occupation? Student history
What’s your current relationship status? Dating casually
Religious affiliation: Agnostic
How religious are you? A little
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 10
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

Virgin Hook Up

How long ago did this hookup happen? 4,5 months ago

What was your relationship status at the time? Single

How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand

How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? He plays for the same sports club as I do. I never met him before but I had seen him before at the club.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? That day we had had a tournament and it concluded with a party. He was dancing close by the whole evening, looking at me. I had promised to bring a friend home on my bike because she was without transport and it was too far to walk. Before we left, I was feeling horny so I pressed myself up to him in the hallway with my left hand on his right shoulder and talked in his ear, asking him to come with me. He did.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? While we were sitting on my bed, he confessed being a virgin. I thought, screw it, I’m horny and drunk and we’re here so let’s get on with it. He had a little trouble removing my bra and all we did was the missionary. It took quite some patience on my part and when he came, it was half past three and I was too tired to teach him anything about female anatomy so we went to sleep.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? A little

Did you have an orgasm? No, not even close

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We had breakfast the next morning and discovered we do the same major but on different universities. I felt fine with everything, just a tad unsatisfied with his prowess because he did not know how to make me come. I never had sex with him again. The next training session he asked for my number and I gave it because I like him as a person and I did not want to turn him down. The next day he proposed to see a movie together but I turned it down because I did not like him enough for that.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Intoxication, To feel better about myself, To cheer myself up, I was feeling lonely, Boredom, It was easy / convenient

How intoxicated were you? A little tipsy/high

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? Drunk/high but not wasted

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? The friend I drove home and the entire team. They nicknamed him puppy because of his behavior and the way he looked at me.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Neutral

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? A little bit

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? I felt better about myself

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? I now have a boy that texts me now and again and he is not very good at making conversation. Awkward even.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? No

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? A little positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

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