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What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 55
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? London
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your occupation? Senior Manager
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Bisexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 10
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

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How long ago did this hookup happen? 5 years ago

What was your relationship status at the time? Engaged/Married (monogamous)

How would you best classify this hookup? Fuck-buddies / Booty call

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a month

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? He was a white male and same age as me.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I’d missed out on that stage of teenage age sex where I’d masturbated with another man and always wanted to know what it felt like – and there was not much sex in my marriage at that point. This was arranged through a masturbation website.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We masturbated together, watching porn, for a couple of hours. We talked openly about what we saw and about previous partners. We walked around the room so that we could clearly look at each others’ erect cocks. At orgasm, my partner offered to come where I wanted. I asked him to squirt his come over my breasts as they are sensitive. When he shot his load which squirted onto me and onto the curtains of my bedroom, I came without touching – I was excited but managed to stop mid orgasm after a small amount of semen came out of my cock, and after he had finished with a loud moan and was still rubbing his cock about a minute later. I rubbed my cock and came again, this time fully and with a large amount of semen. We talked all the way through the encounter. I enjoyed hearing him come as well as seeing it.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I wanted to masturbate again to orgasm after he left, and twice more the following day. We met once more. I have often made myself come thinking of this encounter. Finally, I had always wondered about men who could have multiple orgasms, and am amazed that I was able to have two in a row, and that moreover that this was with one of my male partners.

I have chatted via the web with my partner about this session and have very fond memories of him because of it.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) No penetrative sex happened

What were your motives for this hookup? Learning new things, experimenting, Thought it was an important experience to have, Submission / Relinquishing power, It was easy / convenient

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No-one.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Watching my partner masturbate, watching porn l liked with someone else who appreciated it, and also getting intense pleasure from watching and hearing him having an orgasm, and from me having what I thought was a double orgasm for the first time.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Nothing

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Yes!

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? Eventually, I would love to have another male partner I can do this with. This has not changed my attitude towards women.

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? Generally, I’m not a one for casual sex – but really needed this encounter. Apart from this, I have only had a one night stand with a woman.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? I’d be fascinated to hear what people think about this story.

You have a hookup story to share? Submit it here!

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