What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 35
What’s your race/ethnicity? Black
What continent do you live on? Africa
What country and/or city do you live in? Abuja, Nigeria
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Lawyer
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Somewhat
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 10
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 1
While She Was Out Walking
How long ago did this hookup happen? 2 years ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status
How would you best classify this hookup? Friends-with-benefits
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a year
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I was in my office one morning when a lady walked by. Our eyes met and I was instantly attracted to her and I could sense she was too by the little smile that crossed her face. It turns out she had just joined the company and her husband worked there too. Over the next few months, we became friendly despite her husband’s objections. We decided to meet up for drinks one evening and even though nothing happened, we shared sex stories and described our preferred body types. I described her and she described me. That was the green light I needed.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? A few weeks after we met up for drinks, I called her while I was on my way to meet up with friends. She didn’t pick up but called me back. She said she waited till she was out of the house to return my call and that now, she was out walking for exercise. I asked her if I could come see her and she said yes. I drove to her neighborhood and parked in the lot. She found me and came over and sat in the back seat with me. It was late at night and my rear windows are tinted and my sunlight reflector covered the windscreen.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? As soon as she closed the door, I grabbed her and started kissing her. I wasn’t sure how she would respond but she did so with enthusiasm. I figured since we hadn’t really talked about sex we would just make out, but I wanted more. I unbuckled my belt and put her hands down my pants. She grabbed my penis and went down on me, much to my surprise/delight. I usually don’t cum from blowjobs but I was too excited and she was really good. After I came, she swallowed every last drop which was such a turn-on for me. I stayed erect while I took her shorts off. I made her lay flat on the back seat while I ate her out. She was incredibly wet. I fingered her and licked her until she came too, then I immediately entered her. We fucked until she came again and her vagina walls contracted so tightly around my penis that I could barely move. That pushed me over the brink and I started to come too, so I pulled out. She grabbed my penis and sucked me off as I came. Her phone started to ring as her husband wanted her back home. We quickly got dressed and she ran off.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We talked about how we both thought it would happen eventually because the sexual tension between us was so strong. But we didn’t think it would happen that night or we would take such risks. In the future, we mostly met in Hotels although we did do the parking lot thing a couple more times for fun.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Withdrawal
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s)
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? A little bit
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? I had started a fling with someone who is AMAZING and adventurous in bed. She has given me so many new sexual experiences.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? She sometimes expresses regret about cheating on her husband.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
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