by Rex

Gender: Male
Age: 25
Race/ethnicity: White
Location: Britain
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
Occupation: Academic
Religious affiliation: None
How religious are you? Not at all
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

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How long ago did this hookup happen? 1 Year

How would you best classify this hookup: One-night stand

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Female, probably in her late 20’s. Dark curly hair finishing just above the shoulder. Red spectacles and a white summer dress. Short and slim with pale skin and sporadic freckles.

I had never met or seen her before.

I met her in a park on a rare sunny day beneath a shaded tree, adjacent to an ornamental hedge maze that had long since been left to fall into disrepair.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I am relatively sexually confident and as such I perhaps see opportunity where it is not present. However, such an attitude occasionally leads you to be correct and the attraction fortunately aligns. This was one such occasion. I simply approached her and asked about the book she was  reading as it was one I am very familiar with.

Planning only in the sense that I observed her (and I suspect she was doing the same) on and off for a few minutes before approaching and considered what I might say.

I instigated the conversation though I think my expectation was a bit more modest. She suggested returning to her home.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We spoke in depth for almost two hours during which time I paid her some compliments and she flirted with me quite openly. After I clarified that she was single she suggested we move to her house where I could ‘meet her cat’. Surprising how often pets are used as a diversion…

Once we arrived it soon became clear to me this was something she was no stranger to, and I was hardly unfamiliar myself, so I felt more comfortable expressing myself sexually from the beginning. The cat was nowhere to be seen.

Whilst she was in the kitchen I approached her from behind and began to tear open her tights (pantyhose in the US). I then began to give her oral through the hole as she melted onto a nearby chair. At this point I did notice children’s shoes and related objects around the room but I assumed that any intrusion would have been something she would consider prior to inviting me. Lifting her up onto the table we began to fuck quite aggressively and she allowed me to put my hands around her neck and slap her mildly as I pleased. Surprisingly, as she rose to reposition, she punched me square in the chin and began to laugh. She then bent over and made me fuck her anally at which point I came quite vigorously.

I then proceeded to take her up to the bedroom and we had intense missionary sex on her bed, at which point she came, and ejaculated (or gushed as some people put it) to an extent I had not experienced up until that point in my life. I left soon after. There was no affection, and barely any kissing.

Post-coitus we were both fairly quiet though she giggled in a positive way. The term lover doesn’t really reflect such a situation but we definitely enjoyed similar things.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? I did not wear a condom, whether she was using contraception I cannot say. No, we did not.

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? Sex is a reason in and of itself.

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? Not by me, the time of the day would suggest not by her either.

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I went home.

There are no expectations, nor would I have engaged in it were there.

I have no feelings about her. I appear to associate sex with some form of accumulation and as such quickly lose interest in people once I have had intercourse with them, with a few exceptions.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I never spoke to anyone specifically about it but anecdotally I have mentioned it since, though only in general terms.

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Certainly on both counts.

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? No.

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? The best thing was the spontaneity of it.

The worst thing was learning that I am not turned on by being punched in the chin.

No, it actually confirms many of my thoughts in regards to the value of such connections. I have always known that I am sexually hedonistic so it did not change much regarding my views about myself.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup or anything else? I did wonder later whether the woman had a partner with the children I assume existed but in truth I wasn’t worried about any such factor at the time. As such I think it is hypocritical to feign concern later on.

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