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What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 66
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? US
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? retired
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Somewhat
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 80+
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 1

1st Black Cock

How long ago did this hookup happen? 45 years ago

What was your relationship status at the time? Engaged/Married (open)

How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a week

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? My ex and I were swingers at the time. She had had black lovers in the past, and that turned me on to the point where I really wanted to watch her fuck a black cock. She was ok with the idea and we began looking for a black man for a threesome, or black couple who would play. This was more challenging in the pre-internet days. Going home from class one day, I accidentally made eye contact with a black man and we began to chat. He was an attractive man, six foot or so with an average build.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? After a bit of just social talk, he said let’s go back to my place and have a joint. After we relaxed on his couch, I told him of our desires. He said he had played with couples in the past, but his current girlfriend was the jealous type. I said that was too bad. He then said the weed made him horny and asked if I had ever had sex with a guy. I told him about recently sucking my first cock, but never without a woman present to keep it from ‘being gay’. I guess the weed helped me too as I said, I’d love to see your cock. He slid his jeans down and there was a black cock, slightly hard. He was easily twice as thick as the first cock I’d sucked.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I reached over and ran my fingers over his cock. He twitched and said, stroke it! He got harder and longer and thicker. I slid down to the floor and got on my knees between his legs. I asked if he was okay with me sucking him, and he just nodded. I ran my tongue up the shaft and around the head. I took him into mouth and continued stroking the shaft with my hand. He moaned and said, “suck it, suck it.” I took as much as I could, as deep as I could. He was probably 8 inches long and fairly thick. He kept forcing my head down deeper until I choked. Then he backed off and I continued to suck and stroke him. After a relatively short time, he began to buck his hips and push his cock as deep as I would allow. Then he began to come, shooting wave after wave of thick come into my mouth. I swallowed it all. He said his gf never swallows and that pleased me. It was kind of weird between us then, and I left.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? No, not even close

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I didn’t share this with my ex. She was put off by MY bisexuality, despite have many gay and bi friends, and having had sex with women a few times. I went home and fucked her as soon as possible as the whole encounter had made me extremely horny.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Thought it was an important experience to have, Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it, It was easy / convenient

How intoxicated were you? Drunk/high but not wasted

What substances did you consume? Marijuana, hashish

How intoxicated was your partner? Drunk/high but not wasted

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Marijuana, hashish

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? I don’t know / I’m not sure

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They didn’t give a clear ‘yes’, but didn’t give a ‘no’

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one at the time.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? It confirmed that I enjoyed sucking cocks and that black cocks taste essentially the same as white. However, they can be much more visually appealing! I have revisited this scene frequently when masturbating, and when getting sucked by others.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? That I couldn’t share it with my ex and that he wasn’t interested in repeating the experience. I would have been very happy to suck his cock occasionally and expect nothing but his come in my mouth.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? It confirmed that I was bisexual. I have been occasionally sucking cocks, mostly white, ever since.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? I freely admit now, that I had objectified him and his cock. I have continued to do so, and remain very turned on by cocks, but not by men per se. There have been exceptions, but mostly I get the urge to find and suck a cock to satisfy it. Sometimes, we’ll form a regular thing, but usually only a few times. It set the pattern for me sucking without reciprocation that persists to this day. I have a distinct preference for women sucking my cock over men.

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I wish casual sex was easier to arrange, especially as I grow older.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Love it!

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