by Jasmine

Gender: Female
Age: Late 20’s
Race/ethnicity: Asian
Current location: Korea
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
Relationship status: Married
Religious affiliation: Baptist
How religious are you? Somewhat
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 8
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

1st Try

How long ago did this hookup happen? Not even a day ago..^-^

How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? I would have called it a one-night stand if he didn’t say we have to keep in touch with each other…

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I am living alone in a foreign land and I just got so lonely one time. Then here came an ad for a social site specially created for married people to have casual sex. Just out of curiousity, I joined in and it didn’t take 30 mins. to recieve message from lots of men of different nationalities. At first I got stressed for the inflock of messages I received..I had to take time reading them and opening each’s profile to see pictures before entertaining one. I came across to his message and I think he has the most attractive picture compared to others. So I replied to his message and it went on. This is how I met him and I would love to spend more lonely nights with him.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? After a day, we met. It is the very first I did such thing after marriage and I was so nervous but he tried his best to make me calm and comfortable. When I first saw him in his car, I was a little embarrassed becaused I didn’t expect him to be a so called ‘high-class’ and I had this thought of turning away. ^-^ When I got in i was hoping he didn’t feel disappointed with me…but he was so gentle and thoughtful.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? During the hookup, I was quite embarrassed of my physique because I admit I don’t have that nicely shaped body and smooth skin anymore..I am dull of stretch marks on my flabby belly…and he has this physique that anyone would love to caress..^-^..So he was the one who dis most of the work and it was a superb experience.

Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? I always take very long time to reach orgasm – depends on stimulation though- and expectedly I didn’t have one. I could feel I was so wet but I didn’t feel that orgasmic trembling like a cold water is poured on me–no, nothing. Maybe because I wasn’t really concentrating enough ?? I was beaten by my very low self-esteem. He had one but I don’t if he enjoyed the act since I was really like a beginner that time.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? We did not discuss STI but i asked him to wear a condom beforehand so he did.

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? I guess I just got so lonely in a strange place…and I wanted to put some excitement in my life.

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? No

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? After the hookup, we had a chat just about things…at first I decided there should be no telling of names but he initiated..and again I felt damn embarrassed so I told him mine just the same. He suggested that we should keep in touch and meet again…I would love to do that.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one..and I probably won’t tell anyone ever.

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? No..not at all..I want to have another with the same man..if he wants it too..an affair maybe?

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? In some way, it has lifted up my already dying self confidence..not only in sex but as a person as well.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Fairly negative

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