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What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 38
What’s your race/ethnicity? Mixed / Multiracial
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Atlanta
Highest education received: Some college (not currently in college)
What’s your occupation? Sales
What’s your current relationship status?
Religious affiliation: Buddhist
How religious are you? Very
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Maneater/Former Slut
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 48
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

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How long ago did this hookup happen? 2 years

What was your relationship status at the time? Engaged/Married (monogamous)

How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand

How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Met this coworker on an out of town work trip in the midwest…we’d never spoken or communicated before. After a long day of meetings, we all ended up at a Blues bar. I was dancing when he walked in…his plane had come in late that day so he had joined us at the club. He is average height – 5′ 9″ with a fairly muscular body. Half Tejano/Half Irish.
Before the hookup, all I knew about him was that I’d worked with his Dad at another company previously.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? When he came to the club, it wasn’t very long before he had a few sips of a draft and saw me dancing. He headed my way…and I saw him coming. Standing in front of me, he grabbed my hips and turned me around…and then cupped my ass as I danced…in his hands.
We all left the club and headed to a casino. There, he and I and a few other coworkers sat in a huge booth in a dark bar while other coworkers gambled. He ran his hands all over my legs…thighs…finally kneading me between the legs. All under the table.
We left to head back to the hotel, and this time we made sure we were riding in a backseat together. He begged me to come to his room, but I told him I wanted to get some sleep and think about it.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? The next day we had a break in our meetings before dinner. I had discovered he was in the hotel room next to mine. I showered, put on a sexy bra and panties set, and knocked on his door.
When he opened his door I grabbed his shirt and began to kiss him. He again cupped my ass and walking backwards, guided me into his room…letting the door shut behind me.
I undid my silk blouse buttons and let my shirt drop. I undid his belt buckle and unzipped his jeans, letting his pants fall to the floor. I sunk down to my knees and cradled his cock in my hands through his boxer briefs. Black…matching my lingerie.
His cock was huge. A good 2-3″ bigger than my husband’s.
I slowly pulled down his boxer briefs and took a look…I was so incredibly wet by this point. My black lace panties were practically dripping. I gently allowed the head of his cock to lollipop in my mouth as I cradled and stroked his balls. Then the tongue…up and down the shaft as I pulled his huge cock deeper down my throat. I kept choking…and kept bringing the head deeper down each time, making sure my tongue worked head to base.
After a couple minutes, he grabbed me up off the floor, put his hand between my legs, and told me I better be ready. He threw me facedown on the bed, where he continued to gently stroke me. Finally, as my moans grew deeper, he jerked my panties off and pressed the head of his cock against my clit, allowing it to pulse against me. Finally, I begged for it…I just couldn’t stand it any longer. He pressed the head gently inside me, working his way in slowly. I begged again. Deeper and deeper that massive cock went, and he continued to grow inside me…the girth was just unreal.
20 minutes later, after a couple position changes (one a cowgirl while he sat in an armchair), my first time squirting, and 2 orgasms, he came on my chest.
The next day we bailed on 2 meetings and spent a couple more hours in bed.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? The next day I flew to another meeting session on the East Coast. During those next few days, I had to restrain myself from flying to his home city and spending a week in bed…I was ready to spend all my money just to have more of him.
Later, after I made it back home, we had a pretty steady daily diet of sexting, phone sex, exchanged photos and videos of us masturbating to each other…
No real expectations for a future. He’s in a relationship and I was married up until recently.
But I’m headed to his hometown next week for work. We’ve been planning another rendezvous for a month. I’m so ready to sample his cock again. And this time, I’ve demanded he fill my ass with his cock. I can’t wait.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms, Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness

How intoxicated were you? A little tipsy/high

What substances did you consume? Alcohol, Provigil

How intoxicated was your partner? A little tipsy/high

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I told my friends. They were enthusiastic…they thought it was the first step to leave my psychopath husband. They admired the photos he sent and asked if we could pool our money to bring him here to take turns with all of us.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? A little bit

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? It led me to leave my abusive marriage. I had spent over a decade feeling unwanted and undesirable. Through this I felt like I got my juju back.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? When my husband found out, he absolutely freaked.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Yes. I feel much more comfortable with the idea of seeking sexual satisfaction- FWB, hookups, whatever. It isn’t necessary to have a relationship. But it is necessary I orgasm frequently and make my sex partner come as well.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I’d like to see more people feel more free to experiment. I think if more people experimented it would lead to less repression, more comfortable communication about sex/roles/kinks, and the ability to have better relationships.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? This is awesome. I’m so thrilled I found it. Vicarious sex for everyone!

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