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What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 20
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? USA
Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
What’s your occupation? Student
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 20+
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

2 Guys in One Night

How long ago did this hookup happen? Tonight

What was your relationship status at the time? Single

How would you best classify this hookup? Friends-with-benefits

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For 1 to 3 years

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? The first partner was a tall guy with long blonde hair and blue eyes. I met him in my dorm last year. We had hooked up once before. I knew him extremely well, he was one of my closest friends and was a concert buddy. The second guy was a tall brown haired man that I met on tinder almost a year ago. We only know each other through hookups. I always thought he was cute

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I was trying to hook up with this guy at a party but he wasn’t into me. I got upset and asked my friend (who I have hooked up with in the past) if he wanted to hang out. I went over to his house and I just laid in his bed. He asked me if I wanted to fuck and I reluctantly said yes. We fucked and it was mediocre. He wanted me to sleep over and I started to. Then my constant tinder hookup texted me and said he wanted to fuck. I lied to the first hookup and told him my friend needed me so I had an excuse to leave his house. I went to my house and met the tinder guy. We chatted and drank beer and then one thing led to another.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? The first sex was boring. Sex with the second guy was satisfying and interesting. We 69ed and did doggy style. He’s never eaten me out for as long as he did that night. We didn’t talk about it but I wanted him to sleep over. He ended up getting an uber home though.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? No, but I was close

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I can honestly say I don’t know the answer to those questions.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Emotional intimacy, closeness, connection, Intoxication, To feel better about myself, To feel more desirable, To feel more confident, To cheer myself up, I was feeling lonely, Submission / Relinquishing power, Revenge / Getting even

How intoxicated were you? Drunk/high but not wasted

What substances did you consume? Alcohol, Marijuana, hashish, Cocaine, MDMA, ecstasy, molly, Ketamine

How intoxicated was your partner? A little tipsy/high

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol, Marijuana, hashish, Cocaine

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Nobody yet

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Other

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? A little bit

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure

Do you regret this hookup? A little bit

Why do you regret this hookup? I wish I didn’t fuck the first guy

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Being eaten out

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Queefing

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? No

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Somewhat positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Somewhat negative

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I like casual sex

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Good

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