What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 65
What’s your race/ethnicity? Native American / Alaska Native
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? USA
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (currently pursuing)
What’s your occupation? Early retired
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Very
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Very sexual.
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 3
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
2 Years of Pure Bliss
How long ago did this hookup happen? 1 year
What was your relationship status at the time? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
How would you best classify this hookup? Friends-with-benefits
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? 1st was wife of 40 years. Totally monogamous until affair.
2nd was a very beautiful young lady thirty years younger. Lasted for two years.
3rd was a very nice lady about five years younger. Only twice but very nice and satisfying.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? Met her at her employment. Natural chemistry. After meeting three times, we got a hotel room and spent two days naked having sex. After that every two weeks we met for fun and sex. Enjoyed each other’s company but just enjoyed long bouts of sex. Never anal but everything else. She loved oral. And to be filled with cum as many times as I could. I never realized and never had orgasmed so many times in two days. Also, first time I had multiple orgasms.
She always had multiple orgasms and screamed in total ecstasy. She taught me more in two years than marriage did in 45 years.
I would always bring her to multiple orgasms orally several times. I would always ask, you want me to stop. She always answered, oh hell no. When we were both exhausted we would collapse in each other’s arm, sleep, and start over.
Miss her so much.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Best sex I ever had. Lots of oral. Both of us. First time I came in her mouth she got the funniest look on her face. She said, now what. I said it’s just my cum, swallow. She did. After that, she would swallow and lick cum off me. I enjoyed licking her clean after sex and sharing it with her.
We had fun and enjoyed.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Always loved it. Felt good about it. Looked forward to the next time.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, Emotional intimacy, closeness, connection, Thought it was an important experience to have, To feel better about myself
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Only brother and family doctor for viagra.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? A little bit
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Enjoyed her in all ways. Emotionally, companionship, sex, just being together.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? When it ended. But it needed to.
She found a good stable relationship and needed to stay with it.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Yes
In ways, I cannot explain.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? A good project to discuss and examine feelings.
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