What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 56
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? Northern Europe
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Editor
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (open)
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Gay/lesbian
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 150+
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 3

3-Way With D-List Celebrity

How long ago did this hookup happen? 4 years ago

What was your relationship status at the time? Engaged/Married (open)

How would you best classify this hookup? Group sex

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? “Horst” – a D-list celebrity in my country (I’d never heard of him though), about my age, beefy, tanned, medium brown hair, close-cropped beard, top three buttons of his shirt unbuttoned to reveal a somewhat hairy chest adorned with a gold chain, a bit sleazy yet somehow I still found him pretty sexy. Married to a woman.

“Bud” – a family friend of Horst. He’d been hooking up with Horst for a while, unbeknownst to their wives. Early 40s, clean-cut and not very hairy, perfect body (extremely well-defined and tight but trim and not at all overly muscled), amazing ass, ex-military, bottom.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? On an online chat and hookup site, Horst had propositioned me with a picture of his boyfriend Bud, posing headless in what looked to be an airplane bathroom, showing off his perfect naked ass. Horst was looking for someone to fuck Bud. It was hard to resist that ass. We arranged to meet the next day at Bud’s pied-a-terre in town.
Horst was waiting for me outside the door of the apartment building and explained that Bud was inside taking a shower and getting ready for me, so we should just walk around the block. I sensed a quick assessment immediately following a feeling that I passed muster as we walked. We chatted innocuously, I don’t even remember what about because as we walked, Horst was not-so-discreetly rubbing his cock through his jeans, which was a bit weird and a bit sexy at the same time.
Horst called Bud and made sure it was okay, and then we went up to the apartment. Once inside, he gave me a glass of water and after a minute or two, Bud appeared from the bathroom.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We immediately started up, the three of us kissing each other all at once, my hands roaming all over both of them, reaching into the back of Bud’s shorts and squeezing his ass. Horst and I unzipped our flies and took out our cocks, and Bud got on his knees and started alternating in sucking us both off. I had one hand on the back of Bud’s head and the other on Horst’s ass, and Horst and I kissed hard as Bud went to town.
Soon my shorts were down at my knees, Horst was feeling my balls while I face-fucked Bud, my own hand jerking Horst’s nice thick and juicy cock.
Our clothes off completely, we moved to the bed where Horst wanted to see me fuck Bud. First Horst sucked my cock a bit, then he kissed Bud and rimmed him, making Bud moan and then fucking him briefly. Then it was my turn. He was gasping as I entered him, his legs in the air as he took my cock. I went slowly at first and then picked up speed, with Horst jerking himself next to me. I pulled out so Horst could suck my cock a little more, then shoved back in. Horst wanted to DP, but Bud said it was too much.
Within a few minutes, I came and then collapsed on top of Bud, soaking wet. Horst took over the fucking, softer than I had and with much sweet kissing until Bud came. We lay briefly on the bed in a sweaty tangle, then got up and got dressed.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I fantasized and jerked off to the fantasy that evening, and many times after. Horst contacted me a few weeks later about getting together just the two of us since Bud wasn’t into three ways anymore. Even though I found him sexy, I put him off and it never happened. Although he did friend me on Facebook (which is how I figured out he was a d-list celebrity) and for about a year would ask every couple of months if I could hook up again (the last time, he had someone else he wanted to have a three-way with).

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms, Discussed STI testing history

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? I don’t know / I’m not sure

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? I’m not sure / I don’t know

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? My husband briefly. He was politely disinterested.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Neutral

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Making out with Horst while fucking Bud.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Not sure how much Bud was doing this purely to please Horst, although he seemed pretty into it while we were having sex.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? No.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? Love casual sex.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Yay to keeping up the good fight for everyone’s right to casually fuck!

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