What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 30
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Washington DC
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (currently pursuing)
What’s your occupation? Government Worker
What’s your current relationship status? Single
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Bisexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Into masculine guys, pretty women
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 70
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

2 Orgies in 1 Night

How long ago did this hookup happen? 2 years ago

What was your relationship status at the time? Single

How would you best classify this hookup? Group sex

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I met my partners through craigslist. Never met them before. I had an invite to meet a man and woman who lived in an upscale neighborhood in Charlotte, NC. We exchanged several emails back and forth. They were pretty good looking. The man was normal looking and the woman was very porn looking. I could tell she had implants and was slender with short brown hair. I was a little nervous, you never know who you will meet on Craigslist or what to expect with people.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I got the invite via Craigslist and got their address. I was lost and a little late. As soon as I arrived, they were ready. I accidentally stumbled into their bedroom first thinking that was where the action was at. But it was in the kitchen. There his girlfriend was sucking all the guys. There were 5 men there including me. We then all completely  naked. The first dude was very built and he came as soon as she sucked him. I got sucked. Eventually, the woman’s boyfriend went in first, doggy style. Then I did. We took turns. Eventually, when I went in again I came and gave her my baby batter. It was the most amazing creampie I’ve done. The thought of doing it with a stranger turned me even more on.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I eventually saw one of the males who was extremely well endowed go next and she rode him cowgirl style. It was nice seeing my cum drip down his dick. It felt amazing. I felt a little shy afterward and left abruptly. I would say she was indifferent, I was just another number to her.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I left immediately. Felt great. I eventually met with another couple that night on craigslist so did 2 creampies in 2 different strangers. I can post that in another story as well. I eventually emailed them down the road if they wanted to do it again. They said her policy is no new guys. It felt amazing but I realized I needed to let go of my feelings of it.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None, IUD (Intrauterine device)

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, Emotional intimacy, closeness, connection, Thought it was an important experience to have, To feel more desirable, To feel more confident

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? It was my first group. Doing it unprotected. Felt amazing.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Didn’t know what to expect with strangers. Hoping no one had an STI, which they didn’t thank god.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Yea, it made me believe that people are more open to things than you think.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I think it’s great. I would like to see more people being open about it.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? It’s great to share your stories here when no one else can.

You have a hookup story to share? Submit it here!