by Elsie

Gender: Female
Age: 35
Race/ethnicity: White
Current location: Scotland
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
Occupation: Manager
Relationship status: Married
Religious affiliation: None
How religious are you? Not at all
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 19
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 4

Congratulations

How long ago did this hookup happen? One year

How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? Short fling

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? This is the fourth story I’ve posted about Ron. By this point we were coming towards the end of our business trip and I was really smitten with him, but he had made it clear that people were talking and he didn’t want to keep hooking up.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? During the day I’d received a call to let me know I’d got a new job, and a promotion at that. I was really excited and Ron was the first I called – though he didn’t answer and when I got back to the hotel at the end of the day he said he hadn’t got my message. He was pleased and said we could have a celebratory drink.

A few of the team sat outside the bar and had a drink which meant I couldn’t get him on his own. But after a while people started dispersing and so we left. His room was next to mine at this point.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We got to the room and I asked if I could come in for a cuddle – he agreed and so we laid down on the bed and got comfy. No sooner had we done that than he was asleep!

I thought I’m not having that, and turned and kissed him. He responded and it was the most gentle, luscious kiss ever. I reached down and found his hard cock and began to stroke it. I went to open his fly and go down on him but he pushed me back up and mumbled “no sex”.

I really wanted his dick in my mouth so I played with it some more now it was out of his pants, and he undid my trousers and started fingering me. We got into a bit of a rhythm just playing with each other, but again I tried to move my head down and he repeated “no sex”.

Oh well, will just have a nice fumble then. He continued with his hand in my wet pussy but it wasn’t the best angle. I kept stroking his cock until he pulled his shirt up and shot his load on his stomach. I was quite impressed as I can never bring my husband off on my own like that.

Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? He did, I didn’t but I love anything inside me – hand, dick, toy – so I didn’t mind as it was more than I’d had lately!

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? None, no penetration

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? Ron and I had had sex twice on the trip and I was gagging for more.

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? We’d had the celebratory drinks so a couple each.

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Now this is where it turns sour. He jumped up to clean himself off, but I was in no way finished so took off my clothes and waited for him to come back.

He got angry and told me to leave. He had said no sex twice and wasn’t impressed. I get the feeling he got caught up in the moment and once he’d come he was done. I got dressed sheepishly and he pretty much threw me out.

I was only next door so I went straight through to bed. I later learned that he had been returning home from the trip when he could (we were staying near where he lived at this point) and had got back together with his girlfriend. Explains a lot as I could’ve easily snuck back to my room one door away discreetly if he’d been worried about someone seeing.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? When I went to my room my friend was there but I went straight to bed and he can’t have been that loud about throwing me out as no comment was made.

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? I absolutely wanted what happened but obviously not the ending! I don’t know if he was happy with the handjob or if the whole thing was really a bit unwanted. He seemed to enjoy it!

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? I regret how it ended of course. I do wonder what might have happened had I just let him sleep and cuddle me.

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? The kiss was glorious. Almost every time we have been together there’s been that little spark of something extra special, a glimpse of what might have been if our circumstances were different. I think the worst part is obvious!

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Somewhat negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup or anything else? The next day he actually got really ill and had to go home for a few days. It was genuine and definitely not a ruse to see his girlfriend but at least I got some more intimate time together with him as the trip was nearly over.

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