What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 34
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? United States
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your occupation? Freelancer
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (open)
Religious affiliation: Agnostic
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 7
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 1
A Fantasy Fulfilled
How long ago did this hookup happen? About a month
What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status
How would you best classify this hookup? Friends-with-benefits
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For 1 to 3 years
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She is a long-time FWB of mine, the wife of my partner’s other boyfriend. We’ve known each other for a few years, and have been hooking up for about 2 years, every few weeks. She’s about my age, with a wonderful, curvy full-figure, and a fun-loving personality. We’ve developed a great sexual chemistry, and enjoy hanging out outside the bedroom, too.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We had an afternoon date scheduled, which usually involves us eating lunch and then heading back to my place while my partner is out at work.
That morning, before our date, I’d woken up very horny. As I teased myself a little bit, grinding my cock against the sheets, a specific fantasy occurred to me. I imagined a scene in which I was on my knees, with my hands tied behind my back, eating her out while she stood up leaning back against a wall. She was wearing a dress with no panties. Clothed, but just open enough to give access for me to serve her. I pictured the whole thing in third person, and it looked really, really hot. I’m ordinarily somewhat of a bottom, but not necessarily a submissive. The latter is something I’d explored a little bit with my partner, and was curious to keep digging in to.
We met for lunch as planned. After lunch, we went back to my place, where I read her some mediocre poetry that I wrote back in college (at her request). I was a bit embarrassed at some of my writing, but it felt nice to connect with her by sharing something like that.
Then we snuggled a bit on the couch and chatted while the bed warmed up (an electric blanket is a necessity for Midwestern winters). At a pause in the conversation, she suggested it was time to go to the bedroom. I told her that I had a request, and laid out the fantasy I’d had that morning. She enthusiastically agreed.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? She had minimal experience as a rope top (though some as a bottom), so the first thing was for me to teach her how to tie me up. I used to do a bit of tying (though eventually I decided it was less effort and more fun to be the one getting tied up), and so I have some basic knowledge. We went to the bedroom, where I pulled out my rope bag and grabbed a nice burgundy-colored length of hemp rope. I bound her hands as a demonstration, and then I took the rope off and handed it over to her. I took my clothes off and put my hands behind my back. While I can’t recall for certain, I was probably already rock hard at this point in anticipation of fulfilling the hot fantasy scene in my imagination. She did a great job binding my wrists together, making sure I wasn’t being too strained. Then she guided me up and took me back out into the living room.
She slipped off her panties, sat on the couch, and leaned back. I got on my knees and dove in. Now, at this point, we had deviated slightly from my fantasy, as I had originally imagined her standing over me (and up against a wall). But it was certainly not worth complaining about! I was bound, kneeling, and eating her out while she kept moaning and squirming; all the important parts were right and I was incredibly turned on.
After a while of that she sat up and said it was my turn. She got undressed, I got on the couch, and she started sucking my cock. It was a little uncomfortable to lean back, given my hands were still tied, but I didn’t mind.
She’s always so enthusiastic when sucking my cock, and she often pauses to give me very sexy looks while she slowly licks up and down the shaft. I told her that she made me feel sexy, and she said “you are sexy!”
Soon it was time to move back to the bedroom. But first, as she stood up, I wanted to put that last part of my fantasy to the test: I wanted to eat her out while she stood over me. Partially because I wanted to know if the height was actually right for it =). She obliged, and helped out by raising her leg onto a nearby chair to give easier access. My tongue was at a perfect height to lick her clit, and she commented that she had such a wonderful view.
Once in the bedroom, I lay on my back and she put a condom on me and got on top. She rode me hard for a while, having several orgasms, but then we had to pause to untie me. Laying on my back, with my hands tied behind my back, and taking the force of her vigorous riding was starting to become more than my arms could take. We laughed about it and she set me free, and we went back to fucking while talking about how much fun we’d had in our earlier scene, and how much we liked fucking each other. She had quite a number of orgasms before I finally let go and came with her riding me.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We cuddled in bed and chatted for a long while. I talked about how it was good to be able to be vulnerable with her, twice: sharing my embarrassing poetry, and asking if she would fulfill my fantasy. We agreed that it would be a great experience to repeat sometime. Eventually, it was time for her to get home for the evening. For the next couple of days I felt a buzz about the whole thing, excited and turned on by what we had done. The recollection, and the anticipation of doing it again another time, has fueled some of my masturbation since then.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms, Sterilization
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, Submission / Relinquishing power
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Having a sexual fantasy, and then having it fulfilled just hours later!
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? I’ve got no complaints.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I think it’s fantastic, though finding a successful casual sexual relationship is not always a simple matter. For me, it’s been an enriching experience, once that’s added a lot of joy.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? It’s fun (and quite titillating) to read other people’s stories.
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